I came home from the store one night and walked into the kitchen to find my husband 'peeing in the sink'...And this was happening while our young children were around...He apologized later that night and said he was really embarrased, but I've never heard of such a thing and can't imagine that it might have happened at another time...Another thing that makes it odd is that he is generally a very clean person...idk, does any man out there know what he was thinking, or if this 'just happens'?
Not cool. But if he is not really handy or schooled in the kitchen, he may not realize that sometimes food is washed in there or even set in there prior to consumption (such as fruit, vegetables...drained noodles/pasta). Give him a disposable sponge or rag and a can of bleach scrubbing powder (Bon Ami, Ajax) and ask him to clean up. Make it clear that he has a choice: toilet, shower or outside. Even shower is kind of gross if you have little kids that might want to take a bath, but I used to look the other way if my stbxh did this. You are lucky he's not peeing in bottles and leaving them around the house...or in the car. There are those who do that, too. Or ummmm, houseplants. You might want to give those a sniff. (I'm not kidding...)
That's why its so odd, He's a fantastic cook and loves being in the kitchen.. he cooks more than I do, and this just seems like he'd be the last person to do something like this, especially with our kids around ?? He really is a clean person, and maybe you could see this from a lazy slob, but, I've never even seen him go by a tree, let alone in the KITCHEN SINK
When our dog was still with us, if my husband took her out in the middle of the night, he would always take the opportunity to relieve himself on the tree behind our townhouse. I asked him once or twice if he had to go that bad and his answer was, "No, but as long as the dog was having whizzes, I figured I would too."
I've grown up and been good friends with guys my whole life and I am STILL amazed on what, when and where they'll pee on things!
I chalk it up to differences between the sexes. I can't walk by a pair of cute shoes in the store without at least fondling them. He can't walk by an inanimate object without at least wanting to squirt on it!
Yeah, I get the TREE/PEE thing, But, THE KITCHEN SINK???? I still have to hear it from another guy that he's done it too..Even then It's still a little shocking
I don't think he's ever peed in the kitchen sink, but I know he's used the bathroom sink before. Because what??? The extra step and half into the room with the toilet was just too much???? Never understood that one at all....
My college boyfriend apparently regularly used the sink in his dorm room rather than go ALL the way down the hall....