DanF

Hey guys, I just finished Athol's book. I found so many references in there that really went hand in hand with what I have been doing while rebuilding my marriage. IMO, this man is dead on the money. Even if your life is great and you marriage rocks, read this book. You will get some neat ideas.

sinnister

I've wanted to read this book for a while...but honestly I can't read. No I can perform the act of reading, I just dont find it enjoyable.

Am I screwed?

DanF

I don't know. I have always been a big reader and do it constantly. I have about 3000 books for my Kindle.

Deejo

You can get the gist of what Athol is saying by going to the Married Man Sex Life blog ...

That way you only have to read in chunks.

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romantic_guy

Welcome to the MMSL brotherhood! Maybe this can be the start of a support group.

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joelmacdad

The book just works, I mean it really works to make your marriage better and for sure make your sex life better. I read it a few months back and I'm starting it again.

I have tried many things in the book and get the exact response from my wife the book says I will get. Amazing.

Hope1964

I am buying two copies of this book and giving one to each of my boys when they get married. Make it three - one for my daughters husband too.

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morituri

Why not buy copies for all your children before they get married?

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The book has been a huge win for my wife and I. She respects me more and is more attracted to me. And I get better sex and a happier wife. We were doing well before I read the book. But it is better than well now.

Duke

I agree his book was a great help. Interestingly, but not unexpectedly, the results were not immediate. I still have a ways to go but Athol definitely set me on the right track.

Soon I will have to get a copy for my 15YO son's Kindle. I wish I knew all this when I was his age...

OhGeesh

Book has some good parts, but some of his ideas aren't super current.

For the pushover husband who wants to take control it's good no doubt!!

Atholk

Thanks for the appreciation.

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CantBeJustMe

Funny. I found the forum here because of Athol's book.

CantBeJustMe

Can you expand on the "Super current" comment. I'm curious.

This is me

I just bought the book and wish I would have known about it 2 years ago. The first pages had me at hello (beta?).

I would be interested in thoughts on how this book can help me in my situation. In a nutshell, 17.5 yr marriage, seperated for 4 months, no sex for 4 months, (not that I haven't pursued). She has been coming back home on the weekends, but it is more like dating.

She is detached but does not want to give up yet.

Is there an area of the book that might best help our situation? I believe I am more Beta, but have some Alpha features.

Thoughts?