Hey guys, I just finished Athol's book. I found so many references in there that really went hand in hand with what I have been doing while rebuilding my marriage. IMO, this man is dead on the money. Even if your life is great and you marriage rocks, read this book. You will get some neat ideas.
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (The Message)
The book has been a huge win for my wife and I. She respects me more and is more attracted to me. And I get better sex and a happier wife. We were doing well before I read the book. But it is better than well now.
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I just bought the book and wish I would have known about it 2 years ago. The first pages had me at hello (beta?).
I would be interested in thoughts on how this book can help me in my situation. In a nutshell, 17.5 yr marriage, seperated for 4 months, no sex for 4 months, (not that I haven't pursued). She has been coming back home on the weekends, but it is more like dating.
She is detached but does not want to give up yet.
Is there an area of the book that might best help our situation? I believe I am more Beta, but have some Alpha features.