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Old 02-16-2012, 03:17 PM   #46 (permalink)
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Maybe there's a leap here that my brain just didn't make, but I just don't get how porn is connected to one's offspring. Sure, many porn stars are young, attractive females with very little on, but that's still quite a leap.

If the part about the bikinis hadn't been in there it would have been a different question I think.
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:17 PM   #47 (permalink)
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So the husband was viewing porn, and the OP (finally) communicated a boundary and the porn use stopped.

Now the husband is being berated for what he finds attractive and the whole neighborhood views him as a creep, courtesy of his wife.

I do not think the porn use is the only disrespectful thing happening here.
He deserves it. How dare he find a women younger than his wife attractive. Sicko!
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:18 PM   #48 (permalink)
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Not if their parents are dead.
Really? That's why in obituaries it says "survived by his daughter, so and so and his son, so and so".

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Old 02-16-2012, 03:19 PM   #49 (permalink)
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Maybe there's a leap here that my brain just didn't make, but I just don't get how porn is connected to one's offspring. Sure, many porn stars are young, attractive females with very little on, but that's still quite a leap.

If the part about the bikinis hadn't been in there it would have been a different question I think.
You're too smart to make that leap. Probably because its made up.
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Not if their parents are dead.
Yes all of us are sons and daughters even after our parents have died.


By the way thanks to this thread I cannot wait until summer!

Halter tops, bikinis.. short short skirts..

I can almost smell the flowers blossoming.
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:22 PM   #51 (permalink)
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Really? That's why in obituaries it says "survived by his daughter, so and so and his son, so and so".
My parents are dead. I guess I am nobodies daughter, right?
I'm guessing obituaries say that because of Tradition. Nobody on this earth considers you their biological daughter.
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:27 PM   #52 (permalink)
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I love bikinis too. Just not on me.
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:27 PM   #53 (permalink)
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Oh, stop it all of you, I'm splitting my sides here...

Hee hee hee hee hee hee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:28 PM   #54 (permalink)
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So I guess the majority of men in the entertainment business (movies and music) are absolutely disgusting since most of them are either married to or have married women far younger than they are. Some have married women that could literally be their grand children. But I guess it is ok if they have money, right?


Or what about Demi Moore marrying Ashton Kutcher? 15 years his senior.. you must think she is absolutely disgusting. I mean she is actually having sex with him! I wonder if all her friends hide their sons when she is around....


And if your husband is into young chicks why does it matter what your friends are wearing around him?
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Yes all of us are sons and daughters even after our parents have died.
FYI, TRBE will agrue with me if I say the sky is blue.


If TRBE brought home a man twice her age, she would not have a father that will be concerned as was implied by the post I quoted. When I said "most" women are daughters I took her and the others that do not have a father out of the equation. She should have the ability to understand that but figured she had an opportunity to make a joke and did.
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:31 PM   #56 (permalink)
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Or what about Demi Moore marrying Ashton Kutcher? 15 years his senior.. you must think she is absolutely disgusting. I mean she is actually having sex with him!
LOL if you are a woman, this is considered evolved behavior.

If Ashton was the elder of the two, it would be disgusting though, certainly. :P
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:31 PM   #57 (permalink)
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To the OP.

Your husband didn't just look at porn that had girls the same age as your daughters.

He actually cheated with a girl that age.

Can that possibly be the real reason you are uncomfortable with him?
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:33 PM   #58 (permalink)
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To the OP.

Your husband didn't just look at porn that had girls the same age as your daughters.

He actually cheated with a girl that age.

Can that possibly be the real reason you are uncomfortable with him?
And the plot thickens.
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Couldn't resist...had to add a pic of me in a bikini....LOL...

Thank you all for one helluva great laugh this afternoon!
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Don't think of my daughter during any sexual related activity any more than I think of my mother when I have my girlfriends knees pinned behind her ears and we're trying to break the mattress.

(Used for illustrative purposes only. No girlfriends were fornicated with, in the creation of this post)

Human mind compartmentalizes things for darn good reason.

That said, I understand your being very upset. But ... I do not agree with your rationale, and you will be unlikely to make your husband see it as well.

Just caught up with the rest of the thread .... OH SNAP!
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