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Old 02-16-2012, 03:16 PM   #76 (permalink)
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TRBE could in fact claim she has TWO fathers in she wanted.
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My dad is 10 feet away in a box. I'm always his daughter. Even though he's dust in a box.
According to Loco, I mean Kobo...you aren't a daughter. I wonder where anybody would get such an idea. Thanksgiving dinner where Mom, Dad and the family are all seated and suddenly say "You know, once we are dead.....you are no longer our son. Let's eat!".

And now back to dudes and porn!.....
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BTW - I've got 2 dads, a bio and a step and they'd both be shocked and appalled if they ever were to find out what I was REALLY like.

LMAO!!!!
I had two dads too

Step dad passed almost 2 years ago....dad's been gone almost 5.
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My mother will never die. I'll always be a daughter
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My bio is real sick...not sure if I'll make it out to see him, but that's for another long complicated post!
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Okay, I can't get through the entire thread because of the sexual themes (my work computer blocks it), but to answer your question in regards to looking at porn when you have daughters in their teens and early 20's, and most of the ummm...actresses are close to the same age. I don’t the two are relatable or that the thought would even cross their mind. Here is MY reasoning;

When men (or women) look at porn I don't think they are thinking, "gee that girl/guy is sexy; I wonder how old they are". I think their thoughts are more centered on the sex act that is occurring, because let's face it, most porn stars are mildly attractive at best. So their age and personal appearance really is irrelevant.

I get what the point you are trying to make though. Furthermore, if porn usage bothers you he shouldn't be watching it.
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:55 PM   #82 (permalink)
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I don't think about relatives, be they mothers, sisters, daughters, grandmothers or aunts when either engaging in or thinking about sex.

And I don't think about them having sex either.

In the past, when I was having sex with an old girl friends or later my wife, I certainly didn't think about the fact that she was someone's daughter.

Why on earth would that matter?
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I'm guessing obituaries say that because of Tradition. Nobody on this earth considers you their biological daughter.
Obituaries say "survived by daughter" because they respect the fact that many people do not believe that a father's love for his daughter dies with his body. Even outside of religion, Socrates ingrained the whole concept of the permanence of the soul into western culture. I would imagine that Brighteyes has always grieved the fact that she was adopted. I hate to speak for her, but with the sense of loss and uncertainty that often comes with being adopted, can we please move this discussion to something else?

I'm sorry, Brighteyes, if I'm picking at a sore here.
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Or Granny porn!!!



Would he not be allowed to visit relatives in nursing homes???
You went there didn't you!
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Many women tell their girlfriends about this kind of stuff...it's not uncommon.
It`s uncommon in my house.
It would be cause for a seriously heated exchange and the resetting of essential boundaries.
It could lead to divorce in my house.

My wife doesn`t discuss my sexual proclivities with her acquaintances/friends for a number of reasons.The first and foremost being her respect for me.

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Tacoma - If you have a wife, ask her what she would think if you would be viewing porn when your daughter is 20, and how this is disrespectful to women in general.
I can do one better.
Last weekend as my wife and I were watching a particularly hot porn scene she excitedly remarked about the size of the twentysomething lead actors large penis.

She is the mother of a twentysomething young man.

Guess that makes her a creeper huh?

I fail to see how she was being disrespectful to men, unless of course this is another one of those double standards the porn obsessed seem to have around here.

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It's not creepy, the men who are fathers are the slimy creepers.
if this is true then every father in the history of humanity has been and will be a "slimy creeper"

Your entire post screams of misandry.

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I just feel that when you have daughters or sons, looking at people in porn who are their ages, is just disgusting.
So when I`m 70 I hope they have a 60 and up porn genre in the works or I`ll just have to continue being disgusting.

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Where did anyone get the idea, from the OP, that there was ANY talk of anything incestuous???
Perhaps from this line in the OP..

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We spend a lot of time boating in the summer with the daughters in bikinis and I'm just wondering how my husband feels about this but he won't tell me. It gives me the creeps.
It`s overtly creepy.

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I never thought for one second that she meant she was worried about her H having inappropriated thoughts about his daughters. That is, until the responses all started flowing in!
Actually, thats the ONLY thing I got from the OP.
Thus my statement that it is creepy.

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I do not think the porn use is the only disrespectful thing happening here.
Agreed, the disrespect the OP holds for her husband is palpable in this thread.

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Don't think of my daughter during any sexual related activity any more than I think of my mother when I have my girlfriends knees pinned behind her ears and we're trying to break the mattress.
Actually this I do, I can`t get off without thinking of my mother.
Don`t tell my wife.
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I only talk about how big my husband's penis is.
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I hate to speak for her, but with the sense of loss and uncertainty that often comes with being adopted, can we please move this discussion to something else?

I'm sorry, Brighteyes, if I'm picking at a sore here.
I think Kobo picked at the sore.

Intentional or not, I think telling someone who is adopted that they are "nobody's child" is a low blow.
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I only talk about how big my husband's penis is.
I probably wouldn`t mind "positive" discussion too much.


But my wife most definitely won`t go there.
She doesn`t want to cause any feminine interest in me.
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According to Loco, I mean Kobo...you aren't a daughter. I wonder where anybody would get such an idea. Thanksgiving dinner where Mom, Dad and the family are all seated and suddenly say "You know, once we are dead.....you are no longer our son. Let's eat!".

And now back to dudes and porn!.....
So in the last three days you have "joked" about my capitalization, pretending to believe that I think women are born without a biological father, and now that I'm Loco. Yet I'm the one mocking you....
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I think that the OP is trying to demonize men who watch porn.

I have found certain 18 year old boys sexy and I am nearly 30. Guess that makes me a sick pedophile or "creeper" huh?

A good looking male is a good looking male, as long as they are adults.

Everyone's daughter has sex at some point and these daughters often do things in bed that their fathers would gasp at.

My own father wept when I moved in with my husband when we were engaged. He told my mom: "Now I can't pretend she doesn't do anything!"

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