nice777guy

TRBE could in fact claim she has TWO fathers in she wanted.

Therealbrighteyes

According to Loco, I mean Kobo...you aren't a daughter. I wonder where anybody would get such an idea. Thanksgiving dinner where Mom, Dad and the family are all seated and suddenly say "You know, once we are dead.....you are no longer our son. Let's eat!".

And now back to dudes and porn!.....

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that_girl

I had two dads too

Step dad passed almost 2 years ago....dad's been gone almost 5.

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that_girl

My mother will never die. I'll always be a daughter

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CandieGirl

My bio is real sick...not sure if I'll make it out to see him, but that's for another long complicated post!

Angel5112

Okay, I can't get through the entire thread because of the sexual themes (my work computer blocks it), but to answer your question in regards to looking at porn when you have daughters in their teens and early 20's, and most of the ummm...actresses are close to the same age. I don’t the two are relatable or that the thought would even cross their mind. Here is MY reasoning;

When men (or women) look at porn I don't think they are thinking, "gee that girl/guy is sexy; I wonder how old they are". I think their thoughts are more centered on the sex act that is occurring, because let's face it, most porn stars are mildly attractive at best. So their age and personal appearance really is irrelevant.

I get what the point you are trying to make though. Furthermore, if porn usage bothers you he shouldn't be watching it.

Lionelhutz

I don't think about relatives, be they mothers, sisters, daughters, grandmothers or aunts when either engaging in or thinking about sex.

And I don't think about them having sex either.

In the past, when I was having sex with an old girl friends or later my wife, I certainly didn't think about the fact that she was someone's daughter.

Why on earth would that matter?

Halien

Obituaries say "survived by daughter" because they respect the fact that many people do not believe that a father's love for his daughter dies with his body. Even outside of religion, Socrates ingrained the whole concept of the permanence of the soul into western culture. I would imagine that Brighteyes has always grieved the fact that she was adopted. I hate to speak for her, but with the sense of loss and uncertainty that often comes with being adopted, can we please move this discussion to something else?

I'm sorry, Brighteyes, if I'm picking at a sore here.

Entropy3000

You went there didn't you!

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tacoma

It`s uncommon in my house.
It would be cause for a seriously heated exchange and the resetting of essential boundaries.
It could lead to divorce in my house.

My wife doesn`t discuss my sexual proclivities with her acquaintances/friends for a number of reasons.The first and foremost being her respect for me.

I can do one better.
Last weekend as my wife and I were watching a particularly hot porn scene she excitedly remarked about the size of the twentysomething lead actors large penis.

She is the mother of a twentysomething young man.

Guess that makes her a creeper huh?

I fail to see how she was being disrespectful to men, unless of course this is another one of those double standards the porn obsessed seem to have around here.

if this is true then every father in the history of humanity has been and will be a "slimy creeper"

Your entire post screams of misandry.

So when I`m 70 I hope they have a 60 and up porn genre in the works or I`ll just have to continue being disgusting.

Perhaps from this line in the OP..

It`s overtly creepy.

Actually, thats the ONLY thing I got from the OP.
Thus my statement that it is creepy.

Agreed, the disrespect the OP holds for her husband is palpable in this thread.

Actually this I do, I can`t get off without thinking of my mother.
Don`t tell my wife.

that_girl

I only talk about how big my husband's penis is.

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nice777guy

I think Kobo picked at the sore.

Intentional or not, I think telling someone who is adopted that they are "nobody's child" is a low blow.

tacoma

I probably wouldn`t mind "positive" discussion too much.


But my wife most definitely won`t go there.
She doesn`t want to cause any feminine interest in me.

Kobo

So in the last three days you have "joked" about my capitalization, pretending to believe that I think women are born without a biological father, and now that I'm Loco. Yet I'm the one mocking you....

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FirstYearDown

I think that the OP is trying to demonize men who watch porn.

I have found certain 18 year old boys sexy and I am nearly 30. Guess that makes me a sick pedophile or "creeper" huh?

A good looking male is a good looking male, as long as they are adults.

Everyone's daughter has sex at some point and these daughters often do things in bed that their fathers would gasp at.

My own father wept when I moved in with my husband when we were engaged. He told my mom: "Now I can't pretend she doesn't do anything!"