Re: Worried my wife is cheating
I'm at the point where I read the first page of a big thread like this and when it say's "I'm worried my wife is .... but she's not that type", I then skip to the last page, and it is always in the middle of a huge infidelity crisis. It's all so predictable and depressing and full of angst around action.
The correct course of action when she is lying, hiding, justifying or trying to make YOU feel like the crazy one, is to simply offer her two choices: Stay married and end the friendship, relinquish the passwords, etc; OR to move out. Everything in between just prolongs the misery and damages your soul.