Re: Do I need to worry about this possible EA?
my advice would be..
1. make the wife the bad guy and play into the "your a girl" with your wife and tell her its not right if because of a friendship a marriage breaks up.
this is your good friend, and right now his best friend dosent like this. lets not call more than a couple of days a week, so thy can work out their problems.
2. its time to learn all about dog[s]/training. just wikki the fvck out if it. get involved in her hobbie. an outside man dosent like it when the inside guy starts getting involved in the life of their spouse.
start showing up to sessions and just ask all the questions about food, and mediciene, and grooming. if you dont know the lingo, they could be talking code right in front of you, and you dont know.
2b. start talking to the guy when he calls, just a hey 'sup...keep it on a guy to guy convo, weather, sports, cars...whatever. this goes back to being involved. when you take an interest in your wifes hobbies, it will help her see that this guy is a doush.
3. start texting your wife during the day. keep it light..no sexting, yet....just start with dinner plans, or a incident at the office, we all know the guy who is so stupid, you wonder how he remembers to breathe.
or that office twit. i think once you open up communication with your wife about your day, and show a real interest in her hobbie, she will follow suit with openness back.
do not make it a big deal to your wife. that would do the oppsite of what you want.
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