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View Poll Results: Would you use a Fleshlight if your partner is LD
Yes, I have or would 15 45.45%
No, I have not or would not 16 48.48%
I am thinking about it 2 6.06%
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Old 03-02-2012, 01:38 PM   #1 (permalink)
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How many have tried or are thinking of getting a Fleshlight because their partner has a low drive.
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Old 03-02-2012, 05:16 PM   #2 (permalink)
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WTF is a fleshlight?!
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too high of a skeeve factor for my tastes
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Old 03-02-2012, 05:45 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Think flashlight with a plastic vagina instead of a lens. *shudder*
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Old 03-02-2012, 06:16 PM   #5 (permalink)
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We once rented a dvd on sex toys, it was rather fasinating. That is a sad way to go.... forgoing the emotional connection. The majority is going to be knocking out the porn & grabbing their toy... Whatever it takes to stay faithful in a marraige ....lacking sex.

Here is a link with a variety on Amazon. Amazon.com: Fleshlight

Could always read those reviews, I bet Adam & Eve has lots of reviews too.
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Old 03-02-2012, 06:24 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I wouldn't use one. I don't have a good reason not to though she takes care of me pretty well, but for some reason when a man uses a sex toy on his own it just seems sad. It shouldn't be that way but it is, women have more flexibility I guess.

I once, jokingly, told my wife that if my xbox had a fake vagina I wouldn't need her (she knows when I'm joking and knew I wasn't trying to be hurtful).

She laughed, then commented, "Is there anything you men won't do, I mean you're even willing to have sex with a piece of plastic?"

I waited a moment and then said, "Hon, think about what you just said."

She thought, then laughed and said, "Oh, right, yeah..."

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Sex toys are for women.
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Old 03-03-2012, 02:25 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Ha ha so there is some gender based sex toy bias? That's stupid. I'm gonna get me one of these fleshlights and **** the **** out of it.
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Sex toys are for women.
I know how sexists it sounds...but I agree.
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I don't see how it is any different than masturbation...in fact it is just another form of masturbation so why does it matter how you are doing?

Now whether you would want to actually buy one and have it around the house is another issue.

There does seem to be a double standard for some reason.
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I don't see how it is any different than masturbation...in fact it is just another form of masturbation so why does it matter how you are doing?

Now whether you would want to actually buy one and have it around the house is another issue.

There does seem to be a double standard for some reason.
There is a double standard for sex.

If the idea behind using one of these is to make up for a low drive woman, this will put you firmly in the omega zone.
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Fleshlight? How sad can it get? Reckon that’s verging on soul destroying stuff.
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Fleshlight? How sad can it get? Reckon that’s verging on soul destroying stuff.
Why would it be soul destroying? Is a vibrator?
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Old 03-03-2012, 12:09 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Well, how about this -- I'll admit to owning one. I don't know, what should I say? What's so terrible about it? It's far superior to using your hands.

I am single, though. Part of the reason I bought it was to overcome P.E., and it really worked.
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Being single now, I'd LOVE to find a good sex toy for a man. Anytime I see men ask for recommendations, the answer is almost always the Fleshlight. It just doesn't look very appealing to me.

Does seem to me that there are Is a large divide in gender when it comes to toys.
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