chillymorn

na I want to get caught.......limp,limp look I'm wouded an easy meal for some forouious cougar Oh no fall down and pertent to get away one eye looking back saying wTF is she already.


I guess cougars want younger poorer less experianced lovers.

chillymorn

so women can be PIGS also. interesting and men can be meat instead of tail. also interesting.

Enchantment

It is interesting. Most especially when you start to study the real-life behaviour of pigs and real-life behaviour of cougars.

Pigs, while admittedly having perhaps too much of a perversion for liking to cool down while lying in a pile of mud, are actually very intelligent and intuitive creatures. They are among some of the quickest animals to be able to learn things.

Learn about pigs: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/10/science/10angier.html

Cougars, in real-life are actually a bit of nasty business. They are reclusive and hunt alone. They come together only for mating purposes, and they are stalk-and-ambushers. Not exactly nice, eh?

When you look at the real-life characteristics of each of the animals involved, I think it is quite a dichotomy indeed. The label of 'pig' having a very negative connotation while in real-life pigs are anything but, and the label of 'cougar' having a more positive connotation while in real-life cougars are anything but.

For me, it goes back to a comment I made in another thread the other day about labels. Labels are bad - they represent stereotypes and not the real, human individuals that underly it all. I say lose the stereotypes and lose the labels.

As for me... call me whatever you want...I don't answer unless you say my name.

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Catherine602

Oh I forgot that I dare not utter a word about the destructive nature of some behaviors and beliefs many men find acceptable. If that makes you or anyone not want to read my post then dont read tgem. I am not sure why you point out that my post will not be popular reading if I write anything negative about men? .

Is that supposed to make me shape what i say to please a particular audience? Well it wont. My thoughts and the expression of them are not controlled by anyone but me. I have no fear of being shunned or attacked for them. If those things matter to you then let them, you are free to do what you like.

In my estimation, vicious negativity about women is rarely question by women on this forum. Not because the are acceptable but because women are relentless attracted and driven off the forum. I stand by the comments I made.

They do bear on the subject matter at hand in my judgement. You may not like to hear them but I don't see why that should stop me. Oh yea I am biased
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Broncos Fan

You're absolutely entitled to your opinion and what you say is actually kind of interesting, though in a bizarre way. I think my only issue at this point is that whatever the intention of the thread was, helpful to OP or not, it's gone in an entirely different direction now because you've placed a ton of emphasis on whether or not she should have used a particular phrase in her title. That's too bad.

mr.miketastic

Step back a moment and re-read. You were bemoaning how offensive the thread was, attacked men, crawfished when called on it and now you are telling people to not read your posts if offended? Physician, heal thyself!

Mistys dad

Bemoan the visious negativity towards women all you want.

Then take a minute and go back and see what you have called men in this thread.

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OK, you screwed up, it happens. Now apologize. But apologize just once. Make it loud, clear, short, to the point, and directly to those you trespassed against. Then move on.

Catherine602

I disagree if I see some term that is an affront to my sesibilities then I'll say it.

What bad about that. That I raise a concern that makes people uncomfortable or that it has no merit? If it has no merit then say so. if it makes you uncomfortable that to bad.

I think your use of bazaar is bazaar. many threads turn on the opinion of one poster. I never had the sense that there was some unwritten rule governing post in that way. I said what I saw. The discussion is instructive for me. I don't mind that people disagree and give cogent resonses. I don't mind being swayed by there options. Why shouod you? That has happened a lot for me. That is why I say what I feel.

Putting a labels on legitimate concerns is meaningless.
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Tall Average Guy

If your goal is merely to rant and rage against what you consider unfair, then have at it.

But if your goal is to convince others so that you can effect change, than consider your approach.

Unfortunately, if you continue to stand by your comments lashing out at men alone, then your rhetoric will hide the quality of your points.

mr.miketastic

Imagine having to hear the same music every time you turn on a radio?
Now imagine someone posting how men are awful and are all objectifiers, pigs and <insert gross generalization here> ad infinitum, ad nauseam. Of course people will get offended, and of course you can tell them to stop reading your posts, but the way it was handled by you is like a coke-fiend telling others drugs are bad and then immediately snorting a huge rail.

chillymorn

so its allright if you offend but not if somone offends you?

special rights not equal rights,

why don't you take your own advice and not respond to the post that offend you? Its seems that do the exact thing to don't want others do.

CandieGirl

...I love men...

Catherine602

I don't know why you repeat this point I already said I don't care. If you or anyone stops reading and commenting on all furtue post by me then so be it.. Alright I'll take your ultimatum and I stand by my post. Now you can adhear to your line in tge sand and stop reading all future post.
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AFEH

I can’t see that happening. Not for a long time yet anyway.

She was probably deeply wounded as a young girl, maybe even traumatised and now likely suffers from PTSD. And each time she reads something here that triggers her, she gets traumatised again and hence her repeated attacks on “Man”.

But unfortunately she is like the woman who cries “Rape” when no rape has occurred. But to prove her point and to try and maintain her credibility she just makes more and more things up as she goes along. And so she becomes deluded through repetition, she actually believes the things she says as though they are the honest truth. She sure does paint all of man kind with one exceedingly big and dirty brush.


She will likely go on this way until she heals her innermost wounds. But then again she may never do that but until that time she’ll be reliant on the goodwill, patience and tolerance of man. Even right now in TAM in the men’s clubhouse.

Even now in these days the woman who falsely cries Rape gets less than a third of the sentence than the man would have got had he actually been guilty of rape.

Catherine602

If I have offended anyone then they should be as forthright as I was. Making an accusation with out supporting it is difficult to answer. That is why I gave some dataio about why it offended me. You might do the same.
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