Afeh you got it. Age 15 and it has affected my perception of men. The rape stuff Is way off the mark but the rest is on target so that triumphs the not so accurate stuff. You obviously feel strongly about this and I accept that.
In fact, some very patient and secure men on this forum have helled me enormusly to heal some of my wounds. This forum helped me more than years of therapy and i am greatful for that. There are still tiggers. Since I experienced this at such a young age and the perpetrator was never punished enrages me. I have suffered but he whet on with his life accepted by the community with a lovely wife and 3 children.
He was free to destroy other girls. It seems that the spirit, minds and emotions of girls don't matter, just their tails. That's what bother me about this term and the easy acceptence of this behavior by our culture. It invites this kind of thing by the more unscruplous men so it is sweep under the rug. Posted via Mobile Device
Afeh you got it. Age 15 and it has affected my perception of men.
In fact, some very patient and secure men on this forum have helled me enormusly to heal some of my wounds. This forum helped me more than years of therapy and i am greatful for that. There are still tiggers. Since I experienced this at such a young age and the perpetrator was never punished enrages me. I have suffered but he whet on with his life accepted by the community with a lovely wife and 3 children. He was free to destroy other girls. It seems that the spirit, minds and emotions of girls don't matter, just their tails. Posted via Mobile Device
Ahh, this suddenly makes a lot more sense then. It's a good thing AFEH perceived all this in your background. I had no idea. Hopefully things keep getting better for you and I'm glad to hear this site has been so helpful.
I don't know why you repeat this point I already said I don't care. If you or anyone stops reading and commenting on all furtue post by me then so be it.. Alright I'll take your ultimatum and I stand by my post. Now you can adhear to your line in tge sand and stop reading all future post. Posted via Mobile Device
So your goal is not to persuade others and change their mind, but merely to antagonize? That is to bad, because you very often have important things to say and consider. That effecting change is merely a dressing for your words is sad.
Afeh you got it. Age 15 and it has affected my perception of men. The rape stuff Is way off the mark but the rest is on target so that triumphs the not so accurate stuff. You obviously feel strongly about this and I accept that.
In fact, some very patient and secure men on this forum have helled me enormusly to heal some of my wounds. This forum helped me more than years of therapy and i am greatful for that. There are still tiggers. Since I experienced this at such a young age and the perpetrator was never punished enrages me. I have suffered but he whet on with his life accepted by the community with a lovely wife and 3 children.
He was free to destroy other girls. It seems that the spirit, minds and emotions of girls don't matter, just their tails. That's what bother me about this term and the easy acceptence of this behavior by our culture. It invites this kind of thing by the more unscruplous men so it is sweep under the rug. Posted via Mobile Device
Out of all my time on TAM I have seen just two men I’d consider as “bad men”. Just two out of the hundreds here.
Yet you treat all the men on TAM as though they are bad men. That is your starting point with them. And in that you do all the men on TAM a massive disservice in that you falsely accuse them of heinous crimes against women.
I can assure you all the men on TAM are Good Men, bad men don’t come to places like TAM, some struggling one heck of a lot with the woman in their lives. Yes men do struggle as well and we do have emotions. Some times exceptionally strong emotions.
I think you owe all the good men on TAM a very big apology.
The guy in England who was falsely accused of rape considers that his life has been destroyed and his parents say the same thing. Yet the woman gets just two years in prison for her crime. But such was the hideous and evil nature of her false accusation the judge jailed her even though she was pregnant with twins.
Watch out for you false accusations and persecutions of Man based on one man’s crime against you.
That is very hard to do AFEH as you know. Working towards it is the key.
I am not aware of false accusation. Just because there have been fallse accusations of rape does not make my experience a lie. It is also not inconsequential. The fact that it was ignored is a reflection of this fear of false accusation and the cavalier attitude towards rape. In the past all rape victima were treated like liers or the crime was considered inconsequential. That has changed to a large degree due to women forcing change. Posted via Mobile Device
So your goal is not to persuade others and change their mind, but merely to antagonize? That is to bad, because you very often have important things to say and consider. That effecting change is merely a dressing for your words is sad.
What happen to not reading my post? Posted via Mobile Device
Albeit you may have a lot to do with a game I personally adore, I couldn't disagree with your post above more...such a poet.
I came across a quote recently and it completely applies here...
"A question that sometimes drives me hazy: am I or are the others crazy." -Einstein
Why is it I see the world so differently? Is money just another example of power equal to that of the muscles of early humankind? Do you really feel we are stuck within the limits of our biology and nothing more?--victims yet have all the tools necessary to choose differently?
This limiting thinking is so destructive, predictable and too comfortable. As thinking, empathetic beings are we not capable of something more than this? Am I to believe I am trapped within the confines of my biology forever while we are at a point where we can trade up hearts via transplant and treat a multitude of illnesses?
Why is it so many would like to hold fast to and believe that our mental and emotional capacity must stay at the core of the core of where we came from or that the majority must always be correct by default?
It comes down to what we choose to value in ourselves and in those we choose to love. We are capable of so much more than most are willing to believe.
I believe in limitless possibilities...like fractals. We define ourselves and then empower or disable ourselves based upon our own definitions.
I'm quite curious now. What exactly is it that you think I am saying that you completely disagree with?
Are you saying that generally speaking, women do not value those traits I mentioned in men?
Or are you saying that as men age they do not acquire more of those traits?
Or are you saying that young men do not have the experience of being dumped for a (usually) older man who has more to offer?
Or are you saying that women are not encourage by (media/families/mothers/etc) to find/keep the "best" man they can (via their own definition of best)?
Or are you saying that men (of all ages) do not compete for the most desirable women?
What happen to not reading my post? Posted via Mobile Device
Where did I say I would not read your posts? I did say that much of the valuable information that you seek to convey will be lost in the din of your tone and unreasonable attacks. While, I will continue to read your posts to try to gain insight if possible, it will be difficult not to discount some points.
Don't know why you guys still bother with Catherine. Just read her stuff (or not) and move on. There are many who can't see the world outside their hurts. Both women and men on this board. Every issue is seen through that lense. There is no need to argue with her or discuss. She won't see your side. Take what you can from her posts and move on.
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