T I understand that but is it the young women's fault that they attract this kind of attention. They can't help being young and in their prime. We all get our chance. Why should they be labeled negatively just because one azzzzhole decided to leave his old lady. Why not entitle it "old geezers and foolish old men" if the frustration with some man in the posters life? Posted via Mobile Device
T I understand that but is it the young women's fault that they attract this kind of attention. They can't help being young and in their prime. We all get our chance. Why should they be labeled negatively just because one azzzzhole decided to leave his old lady. Why not entitle it "old geezers and foolish old men" if the frustration with some man in the posters life? Posted via Mobile Device
If anyone were to start a thread like that, then I think it might be you. Funny that this thread was started by a woman who is frustrated by the man in her life. Looks like men are always playing a zero-sum game... Or in the words of a nerd, a zer0-node cluster.
What reaction do you think you would get if you approached a young woman and said "what is your feeling about older men and young tail? You'd be lucky to leave the premises with insulting comments hurled your way . and not brick bats.
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I can only speak for me personally as a young(ish) woman and in my early years that if somebody said this to me, I would not be offended. It is what it is. Not every woman feels objectified with these phrases.
I don't really care which gender started the thread, my objection is in reference to the title an some of the ensuring discussion. Posted via Mobile Device
That would be more convincing if your first post on the subject did not immediately attack men on this subject:
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This thread is very deaturbing. I wonder why this is ok. Why is it ok to have a thread with a title that celerbrates the objectification of young girls? the title is deeply offensive. Women = body parts for sexual use. Young girls are even better body parts. I just find this desturbing. The celebration of the sexualization of younger and younger women by old men is simply disgusting to me. These old men have had their chance at youth. Now they look with averace to shipon off thier youth like leeches. Why is it acceptable to view any segment of humanity as service object.
In a post by a woman bemoaning this behavior, you took an opportunity to lash out at men. Your post reads to assume that a man posted it, because it equates the objectification in the title with the objectification of young girls by old men.
Unfortunately, by setting that tone, it takes away from some otherwise very good points. People who might otherwise have agreed are now on the defensive and far less likely to try and understand what you are communicating. That you backed away does not take away from a person's initial reading of your attack and how it will color their reading subsequent posts.
Finally, I saw very little approval of this occuring. Rather, I most read people explaining why it may occur.
I onlly hate 'cougar' because i get grossed out by older woman/younger man. Just a personal thing, I guess.
Plus, I can picture this one woman I saw about 2 years ago, drunkk off her ass at the local meat market, in too tight clothes, trying too hard to pick up some young guy. Pathetic looking. So I associate a cougar with that vision, not the ahtletic sports model 40 something type of Hollywood lore.
When my two daughters were growing up, getting ready to date,
etc........I used that phase.......men are pigs....to get across
the point that a man or boy would say anything to get into a girls pants.
That all men think about is sex. Will say anything for sex.
My younger one surprised me one day and asked;
Daddy were you a pig to mommy?
Good thing her mother was there to answer that question.
and of course you yes thats how I know all men are pigs,
__________________ The first question should always be, "If it's that bad, why are you still there?
OK, you screwed up, it happens. Now apologize. But apologize just once. Make it loud, clear, short, to the point, and directly to those you trespassed against. Then move on.
When my two daughters were growing up, getting ready to date,
etc........I used that phase.......men are pigs....to get across
the point that a man or boy would say anything to get into a girls pants.
That all men think about is sex. Will say anything for sex.
My younger one surprised me one day and asked;
Daddy were you a pig to mommy?
Good thing her mother was there to answer that question.
And my grandmother used to tell me "Don't let the boys maul you."...
LMAO!
I never had a problem with the boys when I was young...I never really felt that they'd say/do anything to get laid. Then again, I was one of those girls that was puttin out....
Albeit you may have a lot to do with a game I personally adore, I couldn't disagree with your post above more...such a poet.
I came across a quote recently and it completely applies here...
"A question that sometimes drives me hazy: am I or are the others crazy." -Einstein
Why is it I see the world so differently? Is money just another example of power equal to that of the muscles of early humankind? Do you really feel we are stuck within the limits of our biology and nothing more?--victims yet have all the tools necessary to choose differently?
This limiting thinking is so destructive, predictable and too comfortable. As thinking, empathetic beings are we not capable of something more than this? Am I to believe I am trapped within the confines of my biology forever while we are at a point where we can trade up hearts via transplant and treat a multitude of illnesses?
Why is it so many would like to hold fast to and believe that our mental and emotional capacity must stay at the core of the core of where we came from or that the majority must always be correct by default?
It comes down to what we choose to value in ourselves and in those we choose to love. We are capable of so much more than most are willing to believe.
I believe in limitless possibilities...like fractals. We define ourselves and then empower or disable ourselves based upon our own definitions.
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