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Old 03-10-2012, 01:51 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I love my wife she is very milfable lol
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Old 03-10-2012, 09:19 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I think this MILF thing has had a big effect on our society. IMO that scoring a MILF is now exceptable with the bragging rights of some sort of conquest, it is never addressed what the impact it has on the MILF's family.

What I'm say is young guys go out a try to make this score with no regard to the MILF's kids or her spouse. It seems the act of adultory is lessened by the simple fact of scoring a lonely house wife.

Why are there so many stories over at CWI that relate to this subject?
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Old 03-10-2012, 09:37 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Simple--I agree
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Old 03-10-2012, 10:07 PM   #19 (permalink)
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There are men who get hung up on pretty young women but for many of us other guys, there is nothing as beautiful as a woman past the 40 year mark who loves who she is and celebrates it.
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Old 03-10-2012, 11:10 PM   #20 (permalink)
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No doubt many moms feel good about being thought of as a MILF. I get that.

But is this actually ok to say to a married woman by anyone other than her husband? At any age?

So when a 25 year old hunk ( lets go with hunk because I was once told that sexual harassment depends on how cute the guy is ) says to a woman that she is a MILF this is ok because it is an acronym that means she is so hot that he would like to f^ck her. Is it ok for him to just say that. You are so hot I really what to f^ck you. Can he call her a MILF in front of her husband? Would it make him proud to know that his wife is a MILF and that this guy wants to f^ck his wife? If so is it ok for him just to say that? There will be some women here who will say it has nothing to do with their husband. They do not need them to defend her. She will handle things. LOL.

Ok so lets switch to the boy under 18 ( wow would guys be in trouble even talking about a young girl wanting to have sex with them ). So it is ok and not disrespectful for a teenage boy to tell his friends mom I want to f^ck you. Maybe using MILF makes it ok. I mean lets get real a boy this age would f^ck the kitchen table and the bowl of jello and could do that ten times a day. I mean the bar is pretty low here ladies. Seriously.

Have I had people at may age refer to someone as a MILF ... yes I have. And I agree that the people using it are just saying they are hot. In no way would any of them say that to them or their husbands and not expect a problem.

So I see how women could take that as a compliment, but is it really? Does it not have the connotation that they are not only f^ckable but also might be up for it? I honestly don't know. I am thinking that if a guy said that to my wife in front of me, he would be minus some teeth pretty quick. But I am probably just not trendy enough.

Realize that MILF is now a category of porn. A MILF is essentially a woman of experience. A woman willing to take on the plumber, the carpenter, the mail man, the pool guy and basically an army of men of all ages I guess because she is a lonley house wife. I know technically a MILF does not have to be married but really that is the default. A MILF is a married woman who may be old enough to have young teenagers.

So I am not so sure MILF is a compliment. I guess that depends on the person getting called MILF on how they wish to receive it.

MILF -- Urban Dictionary

So maybe when a teenager calls their friends mom a MILF they are just saying that I am going to go home and think of you when I jerk off. I guess that is ok to say.

Then you have the women wearing a MILF shirt. On one level that is sort of cute and funny. Even I see that. So in the mall it has one effect. I think if you go out on a GNO to a bar you are kinda taunting guys with that, but again I am probably just spoiling the fun.

Hi Mrs. Cleaver. Can I f^ck you? I really would like to. I won't tell Mr. Cleaver if you don't. LOL.

I guess a woman would like males to think of her as a MILF, maybe not express that one on one. Idunno.

What am I really asking?

At what age range is it ok for a male to say to a woman that he thinks she is a MILF? For argument sake let's say she is married, has two kids and this guy knows it. Any? 25 and under? It depends if he is cute or not?
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Old 03-10-2012, 11:58 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Good point. I guess I (naively?) expect that most young guys are all talk and wouldn't actually try to score with their friend's mom. I assume they are just ribbing their friend. I also expect moms to have enough morality and self control to prevent them from acting on anything like that. Huh. Maybe I have too much faith in people. Could explain why I get let down a lot.

You may be right. There do seem to be more news stories about grown women having affairs with teenage boys, these days. But, then again, I think there must be something mentally wrong with those women, in the first place. Idk, just my thoughts about it.
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I would expect that most teenage boys that would call someone's mom a MILF if approached by that mom sexually would not have the maturity to avoid it. Their hormones are raging at a very high level. If that mom wanted sex with that boy she is pretty much garanteed sex. While not thought well of it is still way more accepted than if the genders were reversed. Both are equally horribly wrong, but in todays society many people will say ... lucky boy.

In some ways boys are all talk. In others they are all hormones. So yeah I think that is naive to think that the boys would be mature enough to turn down sex with a woman they openly find hot.

I would also hope that few women would encourage being called this openly and that zero would engage this unless they had severe mental issues. I get that they would be flattered from one perspective but really it just seems disrespectful to me IF it is expressed directly to her. I think one teenager to another is just kids being kids. This is just light years away from expressing this to the woman IMO. YMMV.
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Old 03-11-2012, 12:22 AM   #22 (permalink)
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Good point. I guess I (naively?) expect that most young guys are all talk and wouldn't actually try to score with their friend's mom. I assume they are just ribbing their friend. I also expect moms to have enough morality and self control to prevent them from acting on anything like that. Huh. Maybe I have too much faith in people. Could explain why I get let down a lot.

You may be right. There do seem to be more news stories about grown women having affairs with teenage boys, these days. But, then again, I think there must be something mentally wrong with those women, in the first place. Idk, just my thoughts about it.
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I would expect that most teenage boys that would call someone's mom a MILF if approached by that mom sexually would not have the maturity to avoid it. Their hormones are raging at a very high level. If that mom wanted sex with that boy she is pretty much garanteed sex. While not thought well of it is still way more accepted than if the genders were reversed. Both are equally horribly wrong, but in todays society many people will say ... lucky boy.

In some ways boys are all talk. In others they are all hormones. So yeah I think that is naive to think that the boys would be mature enough to turn down sex with a woman they openly find hot.
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Old 03-11-2012, 12:36 AM   #24 (permalink)
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A MILF or a Potential MILF or one who likes to be complimented to be ****able is just like a Prostitute available for Sex ...with or without Money..
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^i don't think being considered a MILF relegates someone to prostitute status.

some of you are reading waaay too much into it. no one said you were gonna start bangin' your kids friends.


"I always thought it was a term young guys used to describe one of their friends mums. If someone said 'wow you're hot' or 'you're such a MILF!' what's the difference. Maybe it's just a way for younger guys to feel comfortable saying it about an older woman with kids."

well put by my #1 fan.

great feedback from the MILFS out there, er... i mean, sexy mature moms. is that better?

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^i don't think being considered a MILF relegates someone to prostitute status.

some of you are reading waaay too much into it. no one said you were gonna start bangin' your kids friends.


"I always thought it was a term young guys used to describe one of their friends mums. If someone said 'wow you're hot' or 'you're such a MILF!' what's the difference. Maybe it's just a way for younger guys to feel comfortable saying it about an older woman with kids."

well put by my #1 fan.

great feedback from the MILFS out there, er... i mean, sexy mature moms. is that better?


Did you get all my fan mail? The address you gave me seems to keep bouncing back, I think the post man stuffed up

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A MILF or a Potential MILF or one who likes to be complimented to be ****able is just like a Prostitute available for Sex ...with or without Money..
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@Gratitude

take your pick. do you want:

A) a t-shirt
B) a fancy shmancy decoder ring
C) a lunch pail

as a token for your devotion.

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take your pick. do you want:

A) a t-shirt
B) a fancy shmancy decoder ring
C) a lunch pail

as a token for your devotion.
You think you can just pawn me off with some shirt or lunch pail? You haven't learnt groupie rules have you

For my devotion, I expect gold tickets to all your posts. Oh, and I want 10 "likes" a day. You gotta keep the fans happy, one wrong move and I'll trade you in like yesterday's business. You want me to start following AR around instead?
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^i don't usually do this, but since you are my #1 fan i'm gonna do something special for you.

i'm gonna sing "The Bandit" for you. how's that?


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