Greetings Gentlemen! I have a question that only you can answer. This is something I have wondered about for a long time but never had any men to ask.
A long time ago in a land far far away, I used to cam chat with heavy metal heads who happen to be mostly men. Any time flirtation would arise, almost all of them would stand and show me their penis. If there was no cam, I got penis pics via email. Keep in mind these were unsolicited penis pics. I was bummed because I was seriously there to discuss metal and find new bands!!! Needless to say, I stopped chatting and put away the web cam.
Tonight I was watching TO CATCH A PREDATOR where these pervs get busted chatting and setting up dates for sex with minors. Every one of these ghouls would send the decoy pics of their junk.
Now I realize not every man does this, but I just wanted to know why men do this. What do they think they will get out of it? Have any of you ever done this? Do men think that if they show me their penis that I will show them my boobs? Tit for tat (pun intended).
And please understand, I respect the penis, I love the feel of the penis inside me, but pics of stranger's d!cks do not turn on most women.
Any insight would be wonderful. Thanks for reading through this guys! I look forward to your answers!!!
I hate to open with very suspicious sounding "I have a friend" but the truth is I have never done this nor would it strike me as a great idea. I'm just not a huge fan of rejection.
But some of those men are simply exhibitionists and the very fact of you looking at their penis accomplishes what they want, but I think part of the answer is relates to age old question
"Why do guys use stupid or gross pickup lines?" and the really short answer is "Because they work".
When I mean "work" they don't work to meet great friends or marriage partners (usually) but they do work for casual sex and that is what they want.
This is what noticed when I used to hang out with a couple of acquaintances who have sex lives which bordered on sexual addiction. Guys like that are unfazed by rejection. They are looking for casual sex. If you are offended they move on. There are lots of women looking for casual sex. Some are obvious, but many are not. This is the quick way they find each other.
One of those guys used to meet women on those telephone chat lines. He had two greeting messages, one was honest and decent and the other was gross and obscene. The second message generated some angry responses but it also generated lots of positive ones. The first message was mostly just ignored.
Please understand that this is not a recommendation. But I am going to guess that many of those metal heads have met with success with that approach and none of your female friends would admit to responding positively.
I'd not draw too many conclusions about men in general from your small sampling of 'metal head' losers who are into 'cam chat'.
Why? you ask? Because thats the best they can do... and they think it is 'awesome' and in their minds 'sexy'... though they dont know what sexy actually means. Sort of reminds me of Beavis and Buthead cartoons. Nimrod mouthbreathing knuckledraggers and insecure, overcompensating douchbags that think that flashing their little wee-wee's makes them look manly and confident - when in fact it makes them look stupid and desperate.
And dont even get me started on TV shows that get ratings by focusing on the worst samples of humanity that they can scrape off the bottom of the genetic heap. Its not entertainment, it is total garbage.
Other than that, I have no strong opinions on the matter.
Greetings Gentlemen! I have a question that only you can answer. This is something I have wondered about for a long time but never had any men to ask.
A long time ago in a land far far away, I used to cam chat with heavy metal heads who happen to be mostly men. Any time flirtation would arise, almost all of them would stand and show me their penis. If there was no cam, I got penis pics via email. Keep in mind these were unsolicited penis pics. I was bummed because I was seriously there to discuss metal and find new bands!!! Needless to say, I stopped chatting and put away the web cam.
Tonight I was watching TO CATCH A PREDATOR where these pervs get busted chatting and setting up dates for sex with minors. Every one of these ghouls would send the decoy pics of their junk.
Now I realize not every man does this, but I just wanted to know why men do this. What do they think they will get out of it? Have any of you ever done this? Do men think that if they show me their penis that I will show them my boobs? Tit for tat (pun intended).
And please understand, I respect the penis, I love the feel of the penis inside me, but pics of stranger's d!cks do not turn on most women.
Any insight would be wonderful. Thanks for reading through this guys! I look forward to your answers!!!
Lol!!!
I've had wallets made of mine!
I'm afraid nowadays if I DON'T give a woman a picture of my penis fairly quickly, she'll assume I'm just not interested!!!
Honestly though - I don't have a webcam and have NEVER taken that kind of pic of myself.
When I found evidence that my ex wife was having cyber affairs behind my back - I noticed how common this was. Many men's profile pics showed their "junk" instead of their face.
I'm guessing with so many guys taking this approach, it must work some percent of the time. If nothing else, it cuts out the awkward "what you wanna talk about" part of chatting.
When I found evidence that my ex wife was having cyber affairs behind my back - I noticed how common this was. Many men's profile pics showed their "junk" instead of their face.
I'm guessing with so many guys taking this approach, it must work some percent of the time. If nothing else, it cuts out the awkward "what you wanna talk about" part of chatting.
There's voyeur in all of us, but there's no way a profile pic of a penis is going to attract a woman. A pic of a vagina certainly isnt going to attract me. I want to see a face and body.
So many men are obsessed with sending penis pics because so many men think women are obsessed with penis size. So if they've got a big one they're shooting pics around to show it off, and if they don't they're sending fake pics for fear of embarrassment.
I'm afraid nowadays if I DON'T give a woman a picture of my penis fairly quickly, she'll assume I'm just not interested!!!
...I'm guessing with so many guys taking this approach, it must work some percent of the time. If nothing else, it cuts out the awkward "what you wanna talk about" part of chatting.
Only for the real young ones NG... too young for you old man.
I'm thinking if it works it must just be a "bod boy" thing, or else just desperate losers (sometimes I can't tell the two apart, I guess one group has a better success rate).
I guess if you are on a adult sex-specific personals site this kind of thing would be expected. I've never posted a pic of my junk anywhere for anyone.
My husband had pics of his junk up on sexsearch sites, and he emailed it around too. When I asked him why, he said he didn't know, but I think there were a couple of reasons. One was that he saw all the other guys on those sites doing it and he figured it was just what one did when trolling for sex. And I also think that when guys do go looking for dirty secret sex, some honestly do think that women want to see the merchandise before buying. Guys are pretty penis-centric - it starts when they're about 2 days old - and most of them are pretty proud of little johnnie I think.
Only for the real young ones NG... too young for you old man.
I'm thinking if it works it must just be a "bod boy" thing, or else just desperate losers (sometimes I can't tell the two apart, I guess one group has a better success rate).
I guess if you are on a adult sex-specific personals site this kind of thing would be expected. I've never posted a pic of my junk anywhere for anyone.
So - what am I supposed to do with all these "wallet" shots?
Hope - was your H trolling for "Cyber" sex, or were these real hook-up type sites?
i might could squezze out a credit card holder, maybe
PICTURES!!! Wallet sized PICTURES to hand out to girls that I meet in real life!
(And this is what happens when you have to explain a joke...)
Hope - was just curious. I didn't know if guys would be that forward when the potential to meet up with a person was there. I could see how hiding behind a keyboard would make someone a bit bolder than they would be if things had a chance to get real. Guess I was wrong...
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