Once a "[body part] man," always a "[body part] man"?
This is something that is puzzling me about STBXH and his new gf, so maybe one of you guys can help me out.
He had always told me he absolutely loved my breasts (which are now down to a C/D cup, but were bigger in the year or two post-baby), including (and I don't know what else to call it, so pardon my French) t!tty-f*cking them, or asking me to rub them against him while giving him a BJ. I couldn't count how many times he would even just cop a feel, just being silly. The girl he is dating now (first since our break-up) is really flat. I'd be surprised if she's even a B cup. I thought back to the EAs he had when we were together, and all but two of them were really flat, too, and those other two were still smaller than I was. He never changed what he told me about my body, from the time we were dating to the time he broke off all physical intimacy after the 'speech.'
Do guys change to where they used to really love a certain part on a woman, and then not care anymore? I'm really curious. Thanks!
Re: Once a "[body part] man," always a "[body part] man"?
speaking of way back when, when I was single....when I was with a girl with a nice ass, I was an ass man. when I was with a girl with nice breasts, I was a boob man.
It's all good.
But primarily I'm an ass man and probably always will be. What I'm trying to say is that even given that fact, I can still appreciate all of the other "parts" of a woman. Regular sex tends to make a guy focus on the positives.
Re: Once a "[body part] man," always a "[body part] man"?
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Originally Posted by angelpixie
This is something that is puzzling me about STBXH and his new gf, so maybe one of you guys can help me out.
He had always told me he absolutely loved my breasts (which are now down to a C/D cup, but were bigger in the year or two post-baby), including (and I don't know what else to call it, so pardon my French) t!tty-f*cking them, or asking me to rub them against him while giving him a BJ. I couldn't count how many times he would even just cop a feel, just being silly. The girl he is dating now (first since our break-up) is really flat. I'd be surprised if she's even a B cup. I thought back to the EAs he had when we were together, and all but two of them were really flat, too, and those other two were still smaller than I was. He never changed what he told me about my body, from the time we were dating to the time he broke off all physical intimacy after the 'speech.'
Do guys change to where they used to really love a certain part on a woman, and then not care anymore? I'm really curious. Thanks!
guys can be as hard to figure out as women sometimes i guess, just in different ways.
maybe he was attracted to smaller ones now just because they are 'different' than yours.
and that may be all there is to it.
It really depends, I look at body parts being in two different categories...
1. Being of preference, if he prefers something specific in that body part, now with preference you can always update or change your preference, maybe even based on previous or current relationship, but not having anything to do with the relationship other than being a reminder...
2. Having a fetish, I believe (and could be wrong) you don't change your fetish, but fetish might be attributed to the part in and of itself, but fetishes can be strange, such as it could have multiple aims and interest... Such as size, shape, dimensions, uniqueness, but you would have to know what that is before making any comparison...
Re: Once a "[body part] man," always a "[body part] man"?
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Originally Posted by 2nd_t!me iz_best
if i am into the woman then im into how ever she looks.
it just helps a bit when they look awesome too, what ever that may be at any given moment.
That's the way I feel about guys. Come to think of it, there really isn't a comparable phrase for women, is there? 'Leg woman' or 'butt woman' just doesn't convey the same thing. Maybe it's a gender thing? Oooh -- the topic has just expanded. Might have to move this to another thread, LOL.
Re: Once a "[body part] man," always a "[body part] man"?
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Originally Posted by angelpixie
That's the way I feel about guys. Come to think of it, there really isn't a comparable phrase for women, is there? 'Leg woman' or 'butt woman' just doesn't convey the same thing. Maybe it's a gender thing? Oooh -- the topic has just expanded. Might have to move this to another thread, LOL.
now that you say it, i have never heard a phrase relating to women like that.
i guess that leaves it open to you calling yourself what ever you like then
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Once a "[body part] man," always a "[body part] man"? 
Maybe it's a gender thing? Oooh -- the topic has just expanded. Might have to move this to another thread, LOL.
