Uh, I think you are the one that made this a head game, atleast until you talk to him face to face and find out exactly what he wants.
Also, I love cute... cute can be sexy, doesn't always have to be sexy. I get called cute too, would rather be called "handsome" or "hunky" or whatever, but I definitely don't take "cute" to be an insult.
You think I`m making this a head game, wow, I didn`t see it that way. I don`t even know what to say to him, I guess i`m trying to come across as aloof, and maybe he thinks I`m being b*tchy. He told me that he likes the fact that I don`t call him, that it`s very casual, no stalking, then he gets too stand offish.
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I don`t think cute is offensive, but reminds me that i still look like a kids...ya know.
11:30 is late in my world. I would have fallen asleep too.
I understand that now....I think but you would think that when I texted with a ok after he apologized, he would have responded with something like `how about we chill tonight`.
Maybe men are not as simple as I thought, or maybe it`s me....I`m too complicated.
didn't you say he was a friend? why not just ask him outright - back when I was single and the internet and phones barely existed people had to talk to each other to find out what they wanted
you might both be missing out on really hot sex cos you're trying to communicate via txt message!
lol, I`m not one for the phones, not really loving the texting either. Calling would have looked desperate....IDK
no! calling is not desperate. it might make him think."oh,****,maybe she does like me."
as for what makes a woman sexy?-- a really nice attitude and a killer smile to go with it and as long as she looks healthy(as in she does not do a bunch of drugs or drink non stop type healthy)---then she will be sexy to a guy who likes women for what they are and not just to get laid.
Don't worry about being cute Working. Cute can be very hot/sexy!
In the end just be confident, know you're totally worth it, and don't be afraid to make the first move.
This guy though sounds like he's either been listening to friends giving him too many dating "rules" to follow, or he's just not that into you (in which case his loss).
I know I'm a guy, but in college for a year I did what I call one-and-done dates. I'd ask a gal out I barely new for one date. No sex, and only a kiss good night if I liked her. My goal was to see if there was any chemistry between us, if I liked her as a person and vice versa. If either or both of us didn't like the other no biggie just move on.
Though you being the woman I'd make sure he makes the 2nd move if you make the first (he needs to show he's got some guts and is into you).
You think I`m making this a head game, wow, I didn`t see it that way. I don`t even know what to say to him, I guess i`m trying to come across as aloof, and maybe he thinks I`m being b*tchy. He told me that he likes the fact that I don`t call him, that it`s very casual, no stalking, then he gets too stand offish.
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This comment proves my point. Maybe he is playing the whole text message head game, maybe not... but you sure are, you said you are trying to come across as aloof, then you are interpreting his silence as thinking you are something else, why wouldn't he if you are being too cold to him? But if you are right and he is playing games, then he is also trying to play aloof, and the result is you will never go on a date with him.
you could always just appear at his door in a long coat with nothing underneath
Or I think someone else on here (that_girl?) showed up with only a bath towel.
HOT!! (and no mistaking the intent, unless you are carrying a hamper full of dirty laundry too in which case he probably thinks you just want to use his appliances)
So he's a fvcking jerk because he failed to read your mind that you had the hots for him, and whose fault is that? You've gotten used to having men pursue you, like the OM did when you were married, and leting you know that they were attracted to you. Now the tables are turned, and what do you about it? Sulk and let your wounded ego get the best of you. Are you going to woman-up and let him know explicitly (at least once) that you want to fvck his brains out?
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but you would think that when I texted with a ok after he apologized, he would have responded with something like `how about we chill tonight`.
