What makes a woman sexy?

2nd_t!me iz_best · 04-08-2012, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by chaos

You've gotten used to having men pursue you, like the OM did when you were married, and leting you know that they were attracted to you.

this sounds a bit harsh and uncalled for really.

working_together · 04-08-2012, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by chaos

So he's a fvcking jerk because he failed to read your mind that you had the hots for him, and whose fault is that? You've gotten used to having men pursue you, like the OM did when you were married, and leting you know that they were attracted to you. Now the tables are turned, and what do you about it? Sulk and let your wounded ego get the best of you. Are you going to woman-up and let him know explicitly (at least once) that you want to fvck his brains out?

I'm not the type to pursue like that, call me kind of traditional, or IDK, a loser maybe lol. You probably have a good point, I am used to the one being pursued, and it screws with my head that he's so blah about me, yet when we're together he'll say things like "I'm crazy about you", I don't say them back, because hey, I just don't feel the same, I like him but not much more than that. I could never fall for someone like him, and he reminds me a bit of my ex...grrrr.

working_together · 04-08-2012, 02:56 PM

Had a few more text exchanges and, yeah, I'm pretty much done with this guy.

Oh well, c'est la vie.

chaos · 04-08-2012, 03:30 PM

Yeah, c'est la vie, a b!tch. On to the next jerk

2nd_t!me iz_best · 04-08-2012, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by chaos

Yeah, c'est la vie, a b!tch. On to the next jerk

LOL

hopefully the next one is not a jerk to you working_together.

chaos · 04-08-2012, 04:58 PM

But seriously w_t, if a man perceives that a woman is not too enthusiastic about being with him, he'll just dump the woman. Is he being a jerk because he cut his losses?

2nd_t!me iz_best · 04-08-2012, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by chaos

But seriously w_t, if a man perceives that a woman is not too enthusiastic about being with him, he'll just dump the woman. Is he being a jerk because he cut his losses?

no, i think more so in the way its done

Complexity · 04-08-2012, 05:21 PM

Demure women

I love it when she plays all shy and offended but in reality she's really turned on inside. Drives me crazy.

chaos · 04-09-2012, 01:23 AM

Of course, I should have figured this out in the first place. You are an attention junkie. It's your catnip.

golfergirl · 04-09-2012, 05:04 AM

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Originally Posted by chaos

Of course, I should have figured this out in the first place. You are an attention junkie. It's your catnip.

Been dumped a lot? She's not biting - give it up.
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chaos · 04-09-2012, 08:29 AM

I bear no malice towards her and while my comments have some "reality bites" to them, they should also be taken tongue in cheek. Believe it or not, I do wish her success.

strugglinghusband · 04-09-2012, 09:30 AM

Or here's a nutty idea, ASK HIM! talk to him...this is new to you, so of course your head is going to spin it all different ways....You cant read his mind, and he cant read yours.

2nd_t!me iz_best · 04-09-2012, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by strugglinghusband

Or here's a nutty idea, ASK HIM! talk to him...this is new to you, so of course your head is going to spin it all different ways....You cant read his mind, and he cant read yours.

then try telling her so instead of throwing stones, is that so hard?

strugglinghusband · 04-09-2012, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by 2nd_t!me iz_best

then try telling her so instead of throwing stones, is that so hard?

Whoa, back up, no stone throwing going on here.....

The nutty comment was meant to be funny/witty/humorous whatever.....
I have followed W/T threads from day 1 and have commentd on her posts and have PMed her ...I get a kick out of her sense of humor on her posts and her sometimes funny replies to other poster...That was my intent.

Maybe I should have put a smile or laughing face with my reply to her..

joshbjoshb · 04-09-2012, 12:06 PM

In response to the original question, what makes a women sexy - I will tell you what DOES NOT:

A women that keeps on reading into your thoughts, action and worse yet things you DIDN'T DO in order to find clues for her insecurities.

Sorry, but women sometimes (or always???) tend to find meaning and all type of meaningless things.

He said he was tired? Assume he was. Unless he is telling it to you 2 nights in a row.