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Old 04-08-2012, 01:20 PM   #31 (permalink)
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tattoos don't make someone a low life do they? I love tattoos
not so much the prison record
I guess not.
Dana Scully had one, after all
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Old 04-08-2012, 01:28 PM   #32 (permalink)
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I'd rather get a root canal than go to the mall and shop for clothing with you.... seriously.
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Old 04-08-2012, 01:30 PM   #33 (permalink)
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It depends. I like to go to the mall with my wife and have her try on clothes that I like. That said, I don't mind the fashion show afterwards depedning on what she bought. Minimal interest in shoes but I'll try to be excited for her.
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Old 04-08-2012, 01:38 PM   #34 (permalink)
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Low-life guy? Guy with tattoos and prison record? no, but:

Someone completely full of themselves. Someone who just touches our deepest desires. Someone whose skin you want to sink your teeth into and makes us realize a part in us we never knew. Someone we wouold throw everything away for just because he is all man, just to touch his skin.

its not about a guy who mistreats me by any means. theres just something about him that sets me on edge and he has a way of provoking my emotions. this provocation seems to set everything free, annoyance, anger, lust. whatever it is that makes me a funcitoning member of society (superficial stuff) is replaced by something deeper within me, the rreal me, the real desires and intuitive, base yearnings.

its probably different for every woman. i can only speak for myself,

maybe we need to start and ugly truth about women thread
Just go with the flow.

I actually do understand this. It just was not clear where you were headed with this because women do vary on this. They also may like this guy more during ovulation.

Some women are attracted to men who mistreat them.

So you want a confident guy with healthy testosterone levels that is comfortable in his own skin.

The funny thing is the other night I was particularly into my wife and was pretty lost in passion with her so I was making some noise about it. More than usual. The weather is good so the windows were open. She gets off on this but she started tapping / slapping my face and wanting me to keep it down a little all the time she was giggling and riding her own physical happenings. I came and it morphed into both of laughing. Groaning into laughing. It was great. But yeah she was slapping me and f'ing the heck out of me too. Awesome. Probably not what you meant but it reminded me of this.
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I'd rather get a root canal than go to the mall and shop for clothing with you.... seriously.
I'd rather have root canal than take you shopping with me!
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Just go with the flow.

I actually do understand this. It just was not clear where you were headed with this because women do vary on this. They also may like this guy move during ovulation.

Some women are attracted to men who mistreat them.

So you want a confident guy with healthy testosterone levels that is comfortable in his own skin.

The funny thing is the other night I was particularly into my wife and was pretty lost in her so I was making some noise about it. More than usual. The weather is good so the windows were open. She gets off on this but she started tapping my mouth / face and wanting me to keep it down a little all the time giggling. I came and it morphed into both of laughing. It was great. But year she was slapping me and f'ing the heck out of me too. Awesome. maybe not what you meant but it reminded me of this.
No, I do. i am the queen of roughing one another up a bit.
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I completely get that one.
You never wanted to slap and f**k a guy at the same time, and the more he pissed you off, the more you wanted him?
Nope.
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Old 04-08-2012, 01:49 PM   #38 (permalink)
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The ugly truth eh?

We really are that easy to work out, I am surprised that most women have not worked us out yet.
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The ugly truth eh?

We really are that easy to work out, I am surprised that most women have not worked us out yet.
We have figured you out. It's just too darn ugly to want to believe it.
Some things you men do (wanting to sleep with female family members) make it vittually impossible to love you so we pretend its hard to understand why you act how you act just so we dont have to deal with reality

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We have figured you out. It's just too darn ugly to want to believe it.
Some things you men do (wanting to sleep with female family members) make it vittually impossible to love you so we pretend its hard to understand why you act how you act just so we dont have to deal with reality
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just think about it. could you love someone from the bottom of your heart who you couldnt leave alone with your hot mom?
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Old 04-08-2012, 02:16 PM   #42 (permalink)
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The day you decided to withhold sex and affection, for whatever reason, was the day the countdown clock started. I can't say how long it will take, and how severe the ultimate consequences will be, but you just threw away something wonderful that could have been between the two of you.
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just think about it. could you love someone from the bottom of your heart who you couldnt leave alone with your hot mom?
i completely agree
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Old 04-08-2012, 02:53 PM   #44 (permalink)
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Hang about!

That's not all of us, that's like saying all women are like the aforementioned family members, some men are bad some women are bad, such is life


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We have figured you out. It's just too darn ugly to want to believe it.
Some things you men do (wanting to sleep with female family members) make it vittually impossible to love you so we pretend its hard to understand why you act how you act just so we dont have to deal with reality
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We have figured you out. It's just too darn ugly to want to believe it.
Some things you men do (wanting to sleep with female family members) make it vittually impossible to love you so we pretend its hard to understand why you act how you act just so we dont have to deal with reality
Before you believe that this is only done by men, think again. There are quite a few wives who have slept with their BIL (husband's brother), gotten pregnant by them and passed the child(ren) off as their husbands.
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