It can also point to a cheating wife finally tiring of their deception.
In this modern world women are now cheating at roughly the same frequency as men do.
There is no moral superiority by gender.
i am looking at it from a womans perspective, so even if 99% of women cheated, i would still focus solely on what men do , simply because thats what affects me
and by the way, its statistically more likely tat i will get cheated on anyways. If i dont cheat, he must be cheating.
That doesn't come as a great surprise to me considering that marriage counselors do not have such a great track record of saving marriages.
Yeah, it doesnt surprise me either i just thought it was poetic justice
I dont belileve in marital counseling, but since its huge on TAm i shall shut my mouth now
That you want to have sex with a man that you are otherwise mad or upset with. We know this to be true. Not many admit it. But are you saying that you only have this urgency with these type of men?
So this is why some husbands cannot understand the wife showing interest in some low life guy while he is doing everything to love her. I am not talking about Noce Guy syndrome. Some women fall for the guy that literally mistreats them. The sleaze. You are probably not talking about this, but maybe you are.
Angry sex is hot (when it's consensual).
Passion is the thing that most people want. Anger, debauchery, lasciviousness, devotion, adoration, desperation, sorrow, gratitude, obsession, and any number of intense emotions contain passion -- even violence, to some extent. It's not that women like the sleazy men for their sleaze, but that the sleazy men are going all out on what they want and there's no timidness there. Certainty and transgression can be thrilling, at times, in a way that politesse and pandering are not. Neither lust nor desire is tame and even tender and loving sex needs to have intensity or else it's boring. Ratchet up the emotions and you'll definitely find passion....sometimes, you also find dysfunction and instability, though. :/
I can eaisly understand the first part of that sentence, but I have a hard time understanding the second part. I'm not saying it's wrong or bad, I'm just saying its hard for me to wrap my brain around it; it's just so foreign to the way I think.
As a husband, my wife wanting to have sex with me made me feel loved and like she wanted me. Having a wife that rarely wanted sex made me feel unwanted and wondering what was wrong. On the other hand, getting in the mood to have sex was not as an emotional experience for me as it apparently was for my wife. I guess us guys are more visual. The fact that i was married to a woman I loved and she was attractive was enough for me to get in the mood. I often joke that it seemed like all the planets had to be in line for her to want sex. On the other hand, she could put me down all day and call me a no-good, low-down, good-for-nothing for 12 hours and then step out in lingerie and ask if I was ready for some action. My response would have been, yeeeeeees!