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Old 04-10-2012, 12:34 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I know all men are different when it comes to this, but why won't you (the ones that won't) have sex with your wife when it's "that time of the month"?

I know some do and will, but some refuse. Why?
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Old 04-10-2012, 12:38 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hmm, I was always under the impression that it was the wives who restricted this. I guess I live in a bubble. If given the chance, I'd gladly earn my "red wings"!
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Hiya Sw in some culturals this was taboo or looked down upon i believe even the old testament has some info on this subject yes times have certainly changed as working pointed out earning one's red wings is now considered manly or alpha if you will go figure

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its not something i ever really enjoyed, its messy and she never acted interested during that time anyway. but i will say, i recognize its a private time for her if she wishes it to be
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No red wings for me but when my wife wants it , she wants it , we just put down the red towel.
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No red wings for me but when my wife wants it , she wants it , we just put down the red towel.


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I don't refuse, but I'm not exactly crazy about it. The biggest thing for me is the smell.

Normally I love the way my wife smells, but during her period it's rather kills the mood for me. I also feel the need to take a shower after to get the smell and just to feel clean again.

My wife just looks at it as a break from sex, and for me I find it easy to be w/o sex for 3-5 days when I know she's having her period. It doesn't feel like a rejection to me, just a break from our sex lives.
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It has never stopped me. It will stop her though...
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Hiya Sw in some culturals this was taboo or looked down upon i believe even the old testament has some info on this subject yes times have certainly changed as working pointed out earning one's red wings is now considered manly or alpha if you will go figure

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Not sure about all that, have not looked into it. I just know all men are different when it comes to this type of thing.

For instance, my hubs refuses to do it during that time. He's about the only one EVER that's been that way.

I admit, it feels good during that time and helps with those menstrual headaches. Or at least that's how I remember it.
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I just won't do it my first day when it's heavy heavy...but we have towels for mess.
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Mr. SA's Husband. I need to know this from you. Do actually walk on water?
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I know all men are different when it comes to this, but why won't you (the ones that won't) have sex with your wife when it's "that time of the month"?

I know some do and will, but some refuse. Why?
I am not big on the sight of blood so I am not big on it. That being said I wouldn't refuse it.
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this is what i was referencing to your question

Leviticus 12:2 "Say to the Israelites: 'A woman who becomes pregnant and gives birth to a son will be ceremonially unclean for seven days, just as she is unclean during her monthly period.
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Leviticus 15:20 "'Anything she lies on during her period will be unclean, and anything she sits on will be unclean.
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Ezekiel 36:17 "Son of man, when the people of Israel were living in their own land, they defiled it by their conduct and their actions. Their conduct was like a woman's monthly uncleanness in my sight.
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