Re: Husband's & Their Personas
my husband had personnas.
There's party guy drug user personna, who can out party and out drug anyone.
At work it was "poor me" "my wife is a c*nt" and "of course I'll flirt with you and hang out with you after work while my wife is working" personna - he dragged our dirty laundry all over the place in that building.
Then theres doting husband- loves me, loves to help, loves to do everything for me, this is usually on display when he wants to get laid, or when company is over.
There's the real at home guy, who hates my pets, doesn't do housework, plays video games, and tells me how lazy I am.
Theres also the needy 5yr old, who cannot detach from my leg long enough to go take a leak.
And SOMEWHERE in there, is the man I fell in love with. The guy who takes care of me when I'm sick, loves to hear my words, loves spending actual time with me, has cute quirks, is a softy, a sweetheart, and still a protector. Cherishes his family, wants to build a real future, and has goals and ambition and is an individual.