04-13-2012, 10:42 PM
Join Date: Mar 2012
| | Re: He say's 'All guys are like this' IS IT TRUE?
First off acting like that in front of the children is unacceptable.
Well the BJs thing isn't 100% universal. I like them well enough, but if my wife never gave me another I wouldn't cry a river either. Other guys feel differently from what I've picked up on the forums here.
As for feeling sex helping men feel more connected to their wives, sure that part is true. I know I always feel more connected and feel my love deepen after sex (and for days after). Different men want sex at different rates.
Still though, love for your wife... that's independent of how much sex you get (or should be). My wife and I struggled with sexual issues for 15 years, but my wife knows I love her.
Now the love you feel from your wife, yes that can be impacted by sex. For me there is the love I know to exist in my head from what I see, hear and observe (that part knows my wife always loves me). Then there's my heart, and when I've not had sex in a long while I feel empty there. My heart doesn't feel loved.