Re: Husband staring at women
Men notice other women. Glances will happen. I do it as well. Staring is a choice. We glance because it catches our eye. It's a reflex but staring isn't. You've already discussed it with him and seen no change. I would bring it up again and let him know that it still bothers you. Why? Just so that when he does it again, you can refer to it and say, "Hey, we discussed this on Tuesday, remember?"
But the next time he does it, let their be a consequence. He needs to be trained not to keep staring. If you're in a public place, do something to embarrass him. Spill water on him, pinch him or hell,... give him a slap. I bet it won't happen as much. If someone were to look at the two of you when he is staring at another women, I assume you would be embarrassed/disrespected. Unless he experiences the same feeling, I don't this his staring will change.
If you want, you can even be generous and warn him beforehand ...during your talk. Tell him, " If you continue to disrespect me, by staring at other women and commenting about their looks... I will embarrass you in public until you stop."
I'm only suggesting an action, because words have already failed. It's going one ear and out the other. Perhaps an action will be more of a shock.
Last edited by occasionallybaffled; 04-16-2012 at 08:49 PM.