So in the thread asking if all men cheat, I noticed a number of folks talk about how they have opportunities to cheat. I guess as a father and a husband I was trying to figure out where this "opportunity" was outside of perhaps work (even then you have to commit to going out alone with someone there, unless you make house calls). Frankly the rest of the time most fathers I don't think have opportunity, unless they are looking to cheat on their wives. Though maybe I live in a bubble so I thought I would ask.
Here are the tasks I typically engage in outside the home (and let's face it most women do go into married men's houses and try and pickup the husband for an affair).
Going shopping (hardware or groceries), I get things hardly talk to anyone. Not like women randomly pickup men there... sorry never seen it or heard of it.
Dropping/Picking up kids at school, which means I sit in my car and inch forward until I get my kids. Zero opportunity to even talk to a woman.
Gym, no one talks or hardly looks at anyone else. I don't see men or women going around hitting on folks there... people just go, work out, and leave.
Church... really is that a big pickup spot? If so, I'd say you're only reason for being there is not religion... again you're explicitly looking for it. I've gone to church all my life, and in that time only heard of one affair (albeit it was a youth pastor and his secretary so I'd file that more under "work" rather than "church").
Rest of the time it's time spent with kids or just around the home... because most Dads have little time for other things.
I could imagine some would mention business trips. I've been on a number, it's not hard to just go back to your hotel after the day is done and get on the phone to your wife. That's what I do... oh unless you are proactively looking for a woman to cheat with.
So again my question is where is this "opportunity" to cheat, unless the father goes looking for women proactively. Just curious (not that I want to cheat just don't understand what the issue is).
Here are the tasks I typically engage in outside the home (and let's face it most women do go into married men's houses and try and pickup the husband for an affair).
Going shopping (hardware or groceries), I get things hardly talk to anyone. Not like women randomly pickup men there... sorry never seen it or heard of it.
Dropping/Picking up kids at school, which means I sit in my car and inch forward until I get my kids. Zero opportunity to even talk to a woman.
Gym, no one talks or hardly looks at anyone else. I don't see men or women going around hitting on folks there... people just go, work out, and leave.
Church... really is that a big pickup spot? If so, I'd say you're only reason for being there is not religion... again you're explicitly looking for it. I've gone to church all my life, and in that time only heard of one affair (albeit it was a youth pastor and his secretary so I'd file that more under "work" rather than "church").
Rest of the time it's time spent with kids or just around the home... because most Dads have little time for other things.
I could imagine some would mention business trips. I've been on a number, it's not hard to just go back to your hotel after the day is done and get on the phone to your wife. That's what I do... oh unless you are proactively looking for a woman to cheat with.
So again my question is where is this "opportunity" to cheat, unless the father goes looking for women proactively. Just curious (not that I want to cheat just don't understand what the issue is).