Women try always to imply themselves on others. They have more ability to give orders than to listen! I think 70% of divorces are initiated by women because their requirements are above the reality level! Impossible to achieve many times. When man is not willing to communicate it is because he is sure that nobody will listen or when a woman uses 2 useful words with 8 more not useful in a 10 words sentence.... It is a debate that was initiated since the beginning of this world. Nobody and change it or find a solution... Men will blame women and vice versa...
Well, i don't know your story but, when you recover from whatever hell is going on in your life, you will be able to let go of these views.
Then you'll meet a loving women and these negative feeling will fall away. Trust your intuition and you will meet her. All women are not as you say.
Although it may not feel like it now, you are in control of your life. You may have to make some difficult choices.
Based on what you say here, it is time you did. Oh and don't let the beotch, whoever she is, win. You are a better man than that and you know it.
My magic wand would remove shame from sexuality for all! Anon Pink