04-20-2012, 07:25 AM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Re: Wife not physically attracted to me
Originally Posted by fobrick
The conversation ended because I had to go to work! I stayed at work late and she was gong away with some girlfiends for the weekend so I came back just as she ws leaving.
We had very similar values and are good friends
She’s not attracted to you. Could very well mean she’s found someone else she is attracted to and is making direct comparisons between the two of you. And that she’s been really dumb to mention it. She’s not attracted to you could mean she’s off out with her girlfriends to find a man she is attracted to. She’s not attracted to you could mean this is the current COMMON THEME amongst her girlfriends and as a group they are using this to go out and get other men, this weekend.
These things are SERIOUS RED FLAGS that all is not well in your relationship with your wife!
From now on be Mr Cool! Don’t believe a word your wife tells you unless you can authenticate it. She will totally rewrite the history between the two of you. It’s most probably all lies to justify her behaviour so don’t get too upset about it.
And from now on SNOOP. Look in her emails, her phone etc. and get voice activated recorders to put in your home and in her car.
Just be Mr Cool, play it call and spy on your wife. If anything is going on it will show up soon and you’ll have evidence to confront her with. Without that evidence all you will get is lies, deceits and denials. You may even get those in the presence of evidence to the contrary, but you will know what the truth is.
Last edited by AFEH; 04-20-2012 at 07:29 AM.