Re: Wife not physically attracted to me
I can only assume that she had a reason for telling you what the marriage meant to her all along. Now's the tough part. Will you accept that you are married to someone who doesn't find you attractive, and kept the news from you, and begin to work to make yourself attractive for her, or will you tell her that you deserve to be marriad to someone who does find you attractive as a person?
I am so sorry! Please stay with this site and read how others have dealt with similar situations. I think you have to give yourself time to process all of this.