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Old 04-26-2012, 11:44 AM   #1 (permalink)
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How would you feel? If it were part fantasy but a lot about you would you feel flattered? Would let her share it online?
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I would be amazed at her recollection of what seemed to happen soooo long ago
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Lmao!! Sorry.
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My partner has done this, and it was a totally true story. She shared it online and I think thousands had read it at last count. I was rather flattered, really. It was also pretty hot reading her account of the experience. I don't care who reads it considering it's anonymous as all names were changed to protect the guilty.

I think I would still be flattered if parts of it were fantasy. I like playing a starring role in her fantasies
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I asked my h and he said it would be weird. I don't know why. We'll talk about it in person. I told him half the time we have sex I want to write about it.
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My husband did this and shared it online with other women he was trying to hook up with. So if he did it now, I would freak on him. Baaaaaaaaad trigger.
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I'd be thrilled for a variety of reasons.
  • She is exploring her own fantasy life and sexual self --always a good thing.
  • She finds me an integral part of both of the above -- also a wonderful thing.
  • She is demonstrating the courage to be authentic -- something I push her to do. I'm a huge believer in showing the same outward face as I do inward face. So in appropriate venues, I like it that we are openly sexual but that is mostly my doing. I'd value her screwing up the courage to do it also.
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I'd be happy, if for no other reason that it means she's thinking about sex... oh and I'm involved is another huge plus.
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My husband wouldn't care what I share, if I get off expressing myself like that... .. he knows that just means I am thinking about him anyway, the more fantasies I have, the more he gets....such things just keep those fires burning. Writing is a passion unto itself.

Though ours is more of a swimming in the emotional over those gripping dripping erotic adventurous shakedowns found in a Romance novel....though that would be very very sweet indeed !

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"Life with Bozo" has already been written.
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What if your spouse wrote erotica that was purely a fantasy with characters who clearly weren't either of you?
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Fine with me.
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as long as she didn't call it mother goose and grim.
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When H and I were dating looooooooooooong distance, there were some very sexy emails..... all of which were stories. Sometimes it was like "tag you're it" and we'd take turns adding to the story and what we planned to do to each other. THOSE would be hot stories!
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When H and I were dating looooooooooooong distance, there were some very sexy emails..... all of which were stories. Sometimes it was like "tag you're it" and we'd take turns adding to the story and what we planned to do to each other. THOSE would be hot stories!
Assuming you kept those emails, imagine how much fun it would be for you two to go back over them together in bed sometime (reading them together).

That's an awesome way to keep the passion flowing from far away though.
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