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Old 05-02-2012, 09:22 PM   #151 (permalink)
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If he loves you and is a real guy...HELL YES. Earning a good woman’s love is the best gift a guy can give himself and seeing her totally nude has no equals. If he sneaks in the room for some mundane task as you are exiting the shower he is trying to sneak a peak... give him a show and walk pass (Bump) him, like it was accident and see how he responds.. If you relationship is good and he is faithful.. he will see the mother of his children and the women he fell in love with and want to jump you bones.......Guys are visual creature that mixed with love.......there wives/woman’s body is simple perfection......: smthumbup:
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Old 05-02-2012, 09:40 PM   #152 (permalink)
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..you're a good mom, that's a really good idea to get a doc's opinion to show her the truth!
Yea, I might just do that...walk past him like hey babe, just getting some water, HEHE~ like it's no biggie! ...woohoo!
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Old 05-02-2012, 09:44 PM   #153 (permalink)
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will you hurry up already!!

im getting impatient and im not even the one getting a peek
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Old 05-02-2012, 09:49 PM   #154 (permalink)
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Badsmit- I like your suggestion too..I love the support I am
getting here, thank you!..my H is a good man, faithful, loving & I HOPE he'll receive me as well as everyone
has suggested! And he DOES come in for little random things after I shower, when I'm all wet & drippy, ha!
I notice because I'm always grasping at a falling towel, wondering if he saw much? .ahhh! :O lol!
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Old 05-02-2012, 10:08 PM   #155 (permalink)
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Dammmmnnn, 2nd_ t!me!!
Keep your pants on, boy! I'm gearing up, this takes COURAGE!
I promise to give a play-by-play after the deed
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Old 05-02-2012, 10:14 PM   #156 (permalink)
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Dammmmnnn, 2nd_ t!me!!
Keep your pants on, boy! I'm gearing up, this takes COURAGE!
I promise to give a play-by-play after the deed
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lol
i am certainly teasing you karma*girl.
you should take whatever t!me you need to feel comfortable so hubby will get the feeling that you are doing it because you want to and not forcing it.
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Old 05-02-2012, 10:53 PM   #157 (permalink)
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it is very sad.
it good for them to be aware enough to be healthy but all this cr@p the media jams down your throat is sickening.
It`s not just the media.

Have you seen the BMI recommendations the FDA put out?

Unreal expectations.
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Old 05-02-2012, 11:02 PM   #158 (permalink)
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It`s not just the media.

Have you seen the BMI recommendations the FDA put out?

Unreal expectations.
yes, ive seen that cr@p.

im 6', 215lbs and it says im over weight lol
hate to know what they thought of me if i actually had some muscular build...obese?
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yes, ive seen that cr@p.

im 6', 215lbs and it says im over weight lol
hate to know what they thought of me if i actually had some muscular build...obese?
Yeah it seems their numbers are based upon the falsity that all Americans are comprised of bones organs and fat.

I`m 5'9" 175 and the FDA BMI charts say I`m overweight.

I`m trying to gain 5-10 pounds more muscle.

lol.
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Old 05-02-2012, 11:31 PM   #160 (permalink)
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2nd_t!me- I know, me too! (: I'm working up to it though- yep, at my own pace..we'll see how long this takes!

tacoma- the FDA is often a complete joke, you're right- unreal.. the sad part is, people look to it & rely on it~ no research or inquiries of their own.
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Old 05-03-2012, 02:54 AM   #161 (permalink)
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Haha...sounds like a blast! We are poker pros too, we could have some fun with that!
But the more I think about it, the more I need to figure out how to GET HIM to be okay with it- what I mean is, he's spent so long trying to avoid my 'sensitive areas'
that I need to figure out how to convince him that I am okay, so he can be okay too!
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Just start talking to him about the insecurities you had, and how you ar feeling comfortable with things now. See! Things are allready getting better. Let him know since you have been avoiding things for so long, your now excited about flaunting your sexy body in front of him, and your ready to experiance new things! I guarantee his imagination will start running wild.
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Old 05-03-2012, 09:00 AM   #162 (permalink)
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Yes, things are seriously getting better! Thank you! My POV has been shifting for a while, and all of you have encouraged that even further
I can't imagine his reaction when I casually tell him how I'm feeling..
or when I drop the towel after the shower, while he's right there- he's going to be so confused, ha!
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Yeah it seems their numbers are based upon the falsity that all Americans are comprised of bones organs and fat.

I`m 5'9" 175 and the FDA BMI charts say I`m overweight.

I`m trying to gain 5-10 pounds more muscle.

lol.
some researcher figured out the if it was an epicdemic then more money would be availible to study it so they changed the criterior of what obese is.

I'm 5'10'' 181 lbs and have 8% body fat (just got measured yesterday) accordining to the charts I'm on the cusp of obease.


muscel weighs more than fat.
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Old 05-03-2012, 12:10 PM   #164 (permalink)
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8% body fat & you qualify as obese? Jeez.
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Old 05-03-2012, 04:03 PM   #165 (permalink)
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Not at all if you love her

I do not have a perfect body and my wife feels self conscious at times but i think she looks fine and beautiful. I appreciate her body and love the way she looks as you age you go down in looks its only natural. Why would i think any less of the woman i love just cause her boobs are not the same or she gained a little weight?

its not like she gained tons and tons of weight.
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