It's SOO cool, thank you!!!
I'm actually looking forward to jumping him later today-
..my feelings have shifted from anxiousness... to horniness, lol!
I'm sure I'll be delving into your minds again soon..I love to be enlightened XO Posted via Mobile Device
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so proud of you
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we have raised you into a fine young woman fit for her man now.
enjoy the beginning of your awesome new sexual self karma*girl
Hey there KG if you're still following this.. I just thought I'd see what you started off asking when you joined here.
I read the first and last pages, and it sounded like the story has a happy ending. (pun intended) But unless it's on the pages in between, I wanted to expand on a point about the man's perspective on this.
My wife has small breasts, they're fun because they stimulate her so much. That's not my point though.
I'd be sad if my wife withheld my visual stimulation. He's with you and he is turned on by you. What more validation would one need? Sharing with him is a gift to him. He'll enjoy it when you do and miss it when you don't.
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The thread linked below is about as close as I get to my story, it has my posts about the point where I turned my marriage around and on the day my wife was planning to move out, instead we started a new beginning. I've been keeping my updates in this thead as well: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general...-sex-life.html
Let me just say that I greatly miss visually getting to see a naked woman, more especially one that I truly love and care about; and one that feels the same about me!
Let me just say that I greatly miss visually getting to see a naked woman, more especially one that I truly love and care about; and one that feels the same about me!
I think that if you start walking around naked and see the way he looks at you, you will not only improve your self-image, but find yourself being more physical with him..
seeing your SO in just their skin is such a good thing.. I WISH my STBXW did that more..But her body issues caused us to stop having sex, stop doing anything like that and she would cover up with layers and make herself look so unflattering when she really had a great body..scars and all..she still turned me on
I think that if you start walking around naked and see the way he looks at you, you will not only improve your self-image, but find yourself being more physical with him..
seeing your SO in just their skin is such a good thing.. I WISH my STBXW did that more..But her body issues caused us to stop having sex, stop doing anything like that and she would cover up with layers and make herself look so unflattering when she really had a great body..scars and all..she still turned me on
Geeky: I feel exactly the same way! I've always thought that a woman's body, more especially the one that I dearly loved, while over the course of time just kept looking better and better with each passing day~ kind of like the aging and the enhanced palatability of an extremely fine wine!
Yes, hi! I still check in from time to ..so although our sex life was/is great, I wanted to loosen up more.
You know what, reminders like this from you & the others still encourage me & get me going
I have this mad desire & sometimes my reflection stops me in my tracks.. but knowing how you guys feel about it..I feel such a weight lifted off of me.
I never thought of the visual of my naked body as a gift.
Now, what I can do with it, THAT'S a gift, lol!
But really, I do see that my response to him will turn him on more, then that turns me on more...and it's a lovely non-vicious cycle..
regardless of what I look like..
I have started running around the house naked, haha! And just being naked in general, doing my make-up, hair, etc..has gotten me much more comfortable with my body.
My next step is taking my shirt ALL the way off in the daylight as I twist & bend into our funky positions we like to tangle up in..
I kind of mentally freak out when my stomach bulges out & folds over & wrinkles, etc..& my boobs disappear in some positions which I also have a hard time reconciling with.
I wonder what it would be like to be flawless & have no thoughts at all about it.
I can't even imagine! :O Posted via Mobile Device
Geeky: I feel exactly the same way! I've always thought that a woman's body, more especially the one that I dearly loved, while over the course of time just kept looking better and better with each passing day~ kind of like the aging and the enhanced palatability of an extremely fine wine!
Bingo...Its like a physical aspect to your emotional attachment to her..
Bingo...Its like a physical aspect to your emotional attachment to her..
The sad thing is that I still find myself greatly missing all of the loving things of my past relationship when unselfish love just flowed freely on a two way stream and things were beyond good.
But I do not miss at all what that misappropriated love fastly turned into!
Let me choose to remember only the good, and use the bad only to toast the past!
Just another Mother chiming in... Don't make the mistakes I did in my marriage...
I've had 6 kids, used to feel just like you for 19 long yrs, I was always hiding behind Eve's leaf for goodness sakes.. wanted the lights out to have sex, it was retarted. I had many inhibitions.
My C-section scar was cut 6 times, I hate my stomach, he calls it the Loves scars of our children. YES ....your husband wants to see you naked !! Really he does ! - I am so angry with myself for looking at life like that -for all of those years, I feel we missed so much , so much of the sexual freedom that could have been. And me loving myself in that way. Accepting myself.
Trust your husband in what he says ! I think you are getting it -by reading the replies in this thread... I only read the 1st page & some of this last page. Not sure what all I missed.
...My next step is taking my shirt ALL the way off in the daylight as I twist & bend into our funky positions we like to tangle up in..
I kind of mentally freak out when my stomach bulges out & folds over & wrinkles, etc..& my boobs disappear in some positions which I also have a hard time reconciling with.
Just the act of twisting and bending into funky positions easily trumps whatever bulges and folds your skin do - in fact it can enhance the effect for your H!
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I wonder what it would be like to be flawless & have no thoughts at all about it.
I can't even imagine! :O Posted via Mobile Device
Being "flawless" and having no thoughts about it are two entirely separate issues. Nobody is flawless, but even those you are inferring with supermodel bodies most certainly worry about it all the time. Meanwhile a few really confident women of all different body types are able to not think about their body all the time even without all their flaws.
One thing I will say about my ex W, her body was by no means flawless to me, I would have liked it to be more of this and less of that, and so did she I'm sure, but it it was only a small part of who she was, and wow did I love when she was naked, just being comfortable in her skin around me was deeply satisfying to me. It gave us both confidence and was the sexy upward spiral you talked about.
Towards the end she had lost attraction to me, and when she was getting ready she would close the door, or hide herself behind a towel, or run past quickly so I couldn't peak, she said it made her uncomfortable and feel degraded to look at her when she didn't want me to see her naked. It was sad and frustrating for me for that to happen.
The sad thing is that I still find myself greatly missing all of the loving things of my past relationship when unselfish love just flowed freely on a two way stream and things were beyond good.
But I do not miss at all what that misappropriated love fastly turned into!
Let me choose to remember only the good, and use the bad only to toast the past!
When we first moved in, we 'christened' every part of every room..Now I just walk from room to room and look at all the old memories...
then I remember we also had a major fight in all the same places..
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