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post #256 of 262 (permalink) Old 09-18-2012, 05:26 PM
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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

My wife often asks "why in the world would you want to see me naked?"
I can't explain because I'm speechless. Why am I speechless you ask?
Here's the scenario: she's showering, and I gaze at her through the foggy glass (oh yes, a good long time) but she can't see me. There is extensive drooling involved.*
Then I do whatever I'm doing, but time it perfectly so I'm there as soon as she comes out and I pounce!
No part of that beautiful body goes untouched or unkissed - oh yes, I'm talking everywhere!*
In addition to all the exposed parts, also all the secret spots as well!
And my attention is not diminished on the cesarean scar, nor the tummy or any other part that's been mentioned throughout this thread. *
At this point she asks me the question at the beginning of this reply.*
I can't answer, because I'm speechless.*
Repeat, repeat, repeat the above as often as possible. Even after 22 years, I'll never get tired of it.*
I love her, all of her. And I love to look at her, all of her.
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post #257 of 262 (permalink) Old 09-18-2012, 05:30 PM
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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

Originally Posted by 99RedBalloons View Post
Guys like to see anything naked. If you have at least 1 leg, 1 hand, a head and a butt then the guy will automatically love seeing you nude. It's just the way they are wired. I'm not sure what the right word to use is.... they are not very picky.
LOL....only partly true, and doesn't in any way describe how I feel about my wife naked.

It's her, my life partner. She's beautiful just as she is.
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post #258 of 262 (permalink) Old 10-24-2012, 01:14 AM
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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

Originally Posted by karma*girl View Post
Hearing how men really feel, is tremendously encouraging!
In response to Nice777..the filters we sometimes see ourselves through are often so debilitating, they hold us back, if we let them.
Media, porn, etc...makes us feel like if we aren't at that level, somehow we are sub-par, physically at least.
The fact that men check out other women, watch porn, things like that- I think those things make it hard for a girl like me to feel I measure up.
My hubby has done all this, although not in excess or in a way that was deliberately hurtful. It's just happens.
But, it also makes me less likely to want to be sexual with him.. because a self-conscious girl doesn't feel all that sexy~however I realize it's not up to him to make me confident- that's an inside job.
BUT- knowing that most of what holds me back is ME, makes it so much easier to feel comfortable just being myself & not stressing about what he's going to think.
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i can not understand why women compare themselves to movie stars and the women on magazine covers . those women are on magazine covers because they look the way they do . they are models . they look so good that people pay them to look at them and take their picture . everyone else in the world is not a model . we are the normal looking people . if everyone looked like the people on magazine covers than that would be normal and the people on the magazine would look like everyone does now . a little fat a little out of shape and wearing a size 10 . men dont look at brad pit and say dam he is great looking with 6 pack abs i dont measure up to him so my wife doesnt think i look good . we see brad pit and go dam brad pit how does he get to look like that and get to be rich too . then we look at the guys we see at the market or our friends and say i look pretty good compared to most guys my age . also if you can look at your husbands hairy back and plumbers crack and nose hair and still find him attractive why would you think that he doesnt look at your scars that gave him his kids , and your boobs that he gets to see naked every day and your jiggly but that he grabs every chance he gets and find you attractive ?
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post #259 of 262 (permalink) Old 10-26-2012, 10:35 AM
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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

In a way, "personality" is clothing in a way. Greatly depending upon the mesh of her, as well as my personality, and a given affinity for the potential of love and exclusivity, I really don't know if I would be anywhere near ready to see her sans clothing, without the inclusion of those circumstances!

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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

Is this post still active? Anyone still around? I have a question, what is the age in general... Do we have any 60 year olds out there?
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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

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Is this post still active? Anyone still around? I have a question, what is the age in general... Do we have any 60 year olds out there?
Dear ATX Lady, this is a zombie thread, so you might be better off starting a new thread in the Sex in Marriage Focused topic area. Alternately maybe a moderator will start with you question and the title and create a new thread.

I am 68 years old man and love to see my 68 year old wife naked. She doesn't like me looking at her naked body, but yes, I like her naked body as we have been married for over 46 years. She is the love of my life, the woman I have shared so much with. All of the scars, pounds of extra weight, and sag of gravity are part of the history we have shared with each other.

If you question is: do men like to look at women who are 60 and over naked? The answer is yes.

In fact there is lots of porn out there about "mature women" "Grannies" etc. Not every guy wants to see naked 25year olds. Google grannie porn and have a look many of the women are old wrinkled, overweight, grey haired, etc.
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post #262 of 262 (permalink) Old 04-27-2017, 03:45 PM
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The husbands here sound so loving towards their wife's. Many women have insecurities, that being said some of those not posting or not being fully honest will not admit that some of these insecurities can be contributed to the behavior of their husband.

Such as telling their wife they are beautiful and then finds out they are secretly looking at photos of other women naked that have been airbrushed and made unrealistic. This puts a huge voice in a woman's head and heart.
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