Re: Does he really want to see me naked?
I'll give you the other side of the equation. Most everybody agrees that he wants to see you "as is" and they are correct.
By thinking in your mind that he doesn't want to see you, you will project on him your insecurities. That can make a man feel lower than dirt.
My wife has her body issues. I don't see it that way.
One of the biggest issues we have in our relationship is that I feel guilty asking her to be open like that. Not because I have an issue with her being naked. But because asking her causes all her anxieties to surface.
No explanation or assurance from me will ever convince her that, yes, I do want to see you naked.....and other things.
The first question should always be, "If it's that bad, why are you still there?
OK, you screwed up, it happens. Now apologize. But apologize just once. Make it loud, clear, short, to the point, and directly to those you trespassed against. Then move on.