Re: Does he really want to see me naked?
That is true- I've always felt like everything must look perfect or close to it, in order to be considered attractive. (I am an obvious perfectionist.)
I never even imagined that he wouldn't zero in on the things I don't like. It's amazing to think he might actually enjoy the whole package.
The thought of just standing there, naked, before him & allowing him to look at & touch me, first off absolutely scares me, then, as I get more used to the idea, I probably would become really emotional. But I'd feel relieved, like wow, he's not running away/cringing/losing his boner, lol!
When I tell him he doesn't want to see this anyways, he doesn't really say anything..he doesn't like to push the issue..it would be awesome if he did because then I might think he DOES really want to see me anyway- but he won't pressure me at all, so it's kind of both good/bad.
I was 18 when we had my oldest daughter & I just turned 34. So it's been a very long time since I've been comfortable in my own skin.
My biggest problem is that as soon as I feel my courage building, I'll start the comparison game- there are so many gorgeous bodies out there & I wind up feeling sorry for my H that he has to be 'stuck' with this one. I've said I have trouble believing him- although I don't say to him I don't believe what he's saying, I feel as if he is being nice because he has to be- he's my husband(:
Everything being said by all the incredible guys/girls here is REALLLLY opening my eyes. I know you all are not here to lie or sugar coat~
I know it's silly, but it helps me believe my H so much more..(which I KNOW I should anyways..)
I love all of your thoughts & true feelings on this & appreciate them very much!
It's all very eye-opening & possibly life-changing for me..& us! (-:
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