__________________ The first question should always be, "If it's that bad, why are you still there?
OK, you screwed up, it happens. Now apologize. But apologize just once. Make it loud, clear, short, to the point, and directly to those you trespassed against. Then move on.
Because we hear over and over how visual men are. As women, we know from puberty that our physical appearance is HUGE in attracting men. So when we don't "measure up" in any way to the ideal, we cannot help but feel anxious.
... and men hear that the size of their wallet is what attracts women. Insecurity is, of course, always a thing on both sides of the gender line. That doesn't make it a good idea.
Wow! Once again, some very interesting insight! Thank you- you all are sharing priceless info here, IMO!
One time I was talking about the cellulite I have, which isn't too much, but there's some.
My H said, 'who cares, if it feels good, I don't care how it looks!'
I guess he was serious! :O Posted via Mobile Device
I think the fact the eyesight starts to go as we age is another way mother nature allows us to see each others aging bodies with its old flaws as easier to accept.
..great theory!
I just wish my H would look at me with crossed eyes or something because his eyes are still seeing clearly! :O
J/k- gotta get over it! Grrrr.... Posted via Mobile Device
I'll grab a towel & cover up if he comes in the bathroom & he asks why..
He has seen you naked plenty of times while you were having sex so what's the point in covering yourself up anyway?
He knows your body shape perfectly.
When I'm laying down, things...umm..look less 'loose' I guess, I don't know- we r so close in bed, he doesn't get a full view of anything--unless his face is in my crotch, THAT I don't mind at all, haha!
I know though- he was watching me change into pj's & I turned around quick & said hey, why are staring??
He said because, you're changing in front of me! I don't mind him seeing my backside all he wants, it's the front that I shy away from.
He honestly has not seen that part of me in forever, unless he's WAY up close, like mouth on me close Posted via Mobile Device
When I'm laying down, things...umm..look less 'loose' I guess, I don't know- we r so close in bed, he doesn't get a full view of anything--unless his face is in my crotch, THAT I don't mind at all, haha!
I know though- he was watching me change into pj's & I turned around quick & said hey, why are staring??
He said because, you're changing in front of me! I don't mind him seeing my backside all he wants, it's the front that I shy away from.
He honestly has not seen that part of me in forever, unless he's WAY up close, like mouth on me close Posted via Mobile Device
give him a good look.
im sure he will appreciate it. hes been asking, right?
I want to! Yikes! He hasn't been specifically asking..but at random times he'll make small comments.. But never just asks.
It seems like he doesn't want to put me in an uncomfortable position, or get uncomfortable himself.
Guys-- how should I go about it without it seeming contrived- how would it be welll received?
Honestly what do u think will go through his mind? Whew- that FREAKS me out!
But I want to be open with him...
Thank you!! Posted via Mobile Device
Just get over it. I'm not being flippant Just get over it! This will be the best you will look (without working out and doing all that) for the rest of your life. You will get older and wiser So enjoy your young body now! ENJOY IT! Let your husband enjoy it
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Re: Does he really want to see me naked? 
So enjoy your young body now! ENJOY IT! Let your husband enjoy it 
