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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

Yes, men are visual.

But, we are also territorial.

We like to look at what we captured.

The first question should always be, "If it's that bad, why are you still there?

OK, you screwed up, it happens. Now apologize. But apologize just once. Make it loud, clear, short, to the point, and directly to those you trespassed against. Then move on.
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Yes men are "visual", it doesn't mean we are picky.

Just like boobs. Men like boobs, so women run around to the plastic surgeons thinking that big boobs are what everyone wants to see.

No..... Guys like boobs. Big ones, small ones, medium ones.

Guys like naked women. They don't have to be perfect, just naked.

Your husband thinks you're hot, don't argue with him.
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You can find beauty in any woman. No woman is perfect in every way - and no woman is IMPERFECT in every way.

If you still feel self-conscious - then accentuate YOUR positives!

Go buy some lingerie that you feel comfortable in.

Even better - tell HIM to go buy you some lingerie!

Then - when he comes home with the skimpiest thing he could find - you'll get even more confirmation that he doesn't want you covered up!
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The first time I ever tried buying lingerie - my Ex returned it - came back with way more "cloth" and "material" than I had originally bought!!!

Some "crap" about "comfort"!!!
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The first time I ever tried buying lingerie - my Ex returned it - came back with way more "cloth" and "material" than I had originally bought!!!

Some "crap" about "comfort"!!!
Did you tell her she was missing the whole damn point of lingerie?

Comfort is sweats and a t-shirt.
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Because we hear over and over how visual men are. As women, we know from puberty that our physical appearance is HUGE in attracting men. So when we don't "measure up" in any way to the ideal, we cannot help but feel anxious.
... and men hear that the size of their wallet is what attracts women. Insecurity is, of course, always a thing on both sides of the gender line. That doesn't make it a good idea.
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Did you tell her she was missing the whole damn point of lingerie?

Comfort is sweats and a t-shirt.
I should have! Really. But that was a long time ago!
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Wow! Once again, some very interesting insight! Thank you- you all are sharing priceless info here, IMO!
One time I was talking about the cellulite I have, which isn't too much, but there's some.
My H said, 'who cares, if it feels good, I don't care how it looks!'
I guess he was serious! :O
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I think the fact the eyesight starts to go as we age is another way mother nature allows us to see each others aging bodies with its old flaws as easier to accept.
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..great theory!
I just wish my H would look at me with crossed eyes or something because his eyes are still seeing clearly! :O
J/k- gotta get over it! Grrrr....
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I'll grab a towel & cover up if he comes in the bathroom & he asks why..
He has seen you naked plenty of times while you were having sex so what's the point in covering yourself up anyway?
He knows your body shape perfectly.
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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

When I'm laying down, things...umm..look less 'loose' I guess, I don't know- we r so close in bed, he doesn't get a full view of anything--unless his face is in my crotch, THAT I don't mind at all, haha!
I know though- he was watching me change into pj's & I turned around quick & said hey, why are staring??
He said because, you're changing in front of me! I don't mind him seeing my backside all he wants, it's the front that I shy away from.
He honestly has not seen that part of me in forever, unless he's WAY up close, like mouth on me close
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When I'm laying down, things...umm..look less 'loose' I guess, I don't know- we r so close in bed, he doesn't get a full view of anything--unless his face is in my crotch, THAT I don't mind at all, haha!
I know though- he was watching me change into pj's & I turned around quick & said hey, why are staring??
He said because, you're changing in front of me! I don't mind him seeing my backside all he wants, it's the front that I shy away from.
He honestly has not seen that part of me in forever, unless he's WAY up close, like mouth on me close
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give him a good look.
im sure he will appreciate it. hes been asking, right?
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I want to! Yikes! He hasn't been specifically asking..but at random times he'll make small comments.. But never just asks.
It seems like he doesn't want to put me in an uncomfortable position, or get uncomfortable himself.
Guys-- how should I go about it without it seeming contrived- how would it be welll received?
Honestly what do u think will go through his mind? Whew- that FREAKS me out!
But I want to be open with him...
Thank you!!
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Re: Does he really want to see me naked?

Just get over it. I'm not being flippant Just get over it! This will be the best you will look (without working out and doing all that) for the rest of your life. You will get older and wiser So enjoy your young body now! ENJOY IT! Let your husband enjoy it


Real women don't want flowers and chocolate.
They want vodka and Taco Bell.
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