Butting in....so based on the fact that my hubs does it at lot (I love reading the men feedback on here) I can assume a he enjoys it b I do not smell bad c I do not taste bad....because he almost always does it at the very least to heat me up...but there have I seen been many women like me who have issues getting off like that...I have total of 3 times, all with him, once drunk. Advice for women on letting more loose in that area? At least now I can relax about b and c which honestly have gone thru my mind even frehly showered? Posted via Mobile Device
Butting in....so based on the fact that my hubs does it at lot (I love reading the men feedback on here) I can assume a he enjoys it b I do not smell bad c I do not taste bad....because he almost always does it at the very least to heat me up...but there have I seen been many women like me who have issues getting off like that...I have total of 3 times, all with him, once drunk. Advice for women on letting more loose in that area? At least now I can relax about b and c which honestly have gone thru my mind even frehly showered? Posted via Mobile Device
if he is down there quite often, he also enjoys it and you are fine.
just relax and enjoy it.
since you have already had orgasms that way, now you can relax about it and just enjoy and you may find yourself having more.
Back when my 32 year old wife was more sexual I would do this as a regular form of foreplay. It was fun and I enjoyed it. Weird...she never even had that distinctive scent...which I don't mind.
I really dont get guys who dont do this. Lick dat clit dudes.
I for one, LOVE giving my hubby BJs. I love hearing his breath, his moans, his exquisite pleasure - there is nothing hotter - except maybe when its my turn. Posted via Mobile Device
I was reading a rape survivors forum and they had almost a similiar opinion I hadn't expected. It was the idea that you are completely in control of this other person and whether or not they'll be satisfied. You take pleasure in controling their level of pleasure.... It is one of the few sexual acts where you have complete control and the other is at your mercy... You have the sexual control to stop it, tease, taunt, drive to the edge then wait, etc...
I did find this new perspective helpful for me and my wife. We had both sort of looked at oral as beneficial only for the reciever. With the new outlook, it's mutually beneficial, rewarding, and adds a new level of fun.
Now if I can just get her to be less self-conscience about her junk down there, we can have real fun... hard to have fun when she's anxious and tense about her own body issues.
I thought cunnilingus was like bigfoot. I've heard about it, but have no proof it exists. Yes, I go downtown on my H, frequently. Trying to get him over some sort of mental block, but so far no go.
I thought cunnilingus was like bigfoot. I've heard about it, but have no proof it exists. Yes, I go downtown on my H, frequently. Trying to get him over some sort of mental block, but so far no go.
why do you do him?
bigfoot can come over to the other side too ya know
I thought cunnilingus was like bigfoot. I've heard about it, but have no proof it exists. Yes, I go downtown on my H, frequently. Trying to get him over some sort of mental block, but so far no go.
It exists. For me it's more like Saturday Morning Cartoons - a distant but fond memory!
We went through many years of zero sex. Bad years. Now, the last 6 months have been great. Putting myself out there and working and taking baby steps. Trying to set an example He came close this am, but he fell off his bike sunday and couldn't find a good position that didn't hurt his scabby knee.
We went through many years of zero sex. Bad years. Now, the last 6 months have been great. Putting myself out there and working and taking baby steps. Trying to set an example He came close this am, but he fell off his bike sunday and couldn't find a good position that didn't hurt his scabby knee.
We went through many years of zero sex. Bad years. Now, the last 6 months have been great. Putting myself out there and working and taking baby steps. Trying to set an example He came close this am, but he fell off his bike sunday and couldn't find a good position that didn't hurt his scabby knee.
how about one of my faves, and his knee CAN NOT be used as a silly excuse...
him on his back,
you squatting over his face and lay that beautiful flower right across his lips. and give a nice little grind every now and then.
just wipe his face with it.
I think we need cunnilingus with training wheels. Need to start out with an easy position. We will get there. Kind of funny that after 18 years of marriage, I feel like we are just starting out sexually. Its kinda fun exploring all over again.
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Re: Question for the guys about oral 
I thought cunnilingus was like bigfoot. I've heard about it, but have no proof it exists. Yes, I go downtown on my H, frequently. Trying to get him over some sort of mental block, but so far no go.
He came close this am, but he fell off his bike sunday and couldn't find a good position that didn't hurt his scabby knee.
