When I was single I never ruled a woman out by her chest size.
I was a marriage minded guy when I dated, and I was far more concerned about the character of the women I dated. I'd say focus on finding men who are more interested in you as a person than in your chest (they are out there trust me).
I should also let you know that there are men who prefer women with more athletic builds (i.e. smaller chested). I know I'm one.
Like other men have mentioned, I don't like breast augmentation much... outside of cases where it's meant to restore a breast that was removed for some reason. I prefer a more natural look.
To many men, when a question like this comes up, we shake our head in a feeling like sadness, because if you really understood the feeling of attraction that you will inspire in the man you choose to be with, it would never be a question. Many men have preferences, and some prefer the way you describe yourself, but these preferences become meaningless once we connect with the right person. She becomes our preference, for many men.
A lot of the whole size thing for both genders is because of curiosity,but once that is over things fall apart because personality was not taken into account and once you see you really have nothing in common its over.
People who are really looking for something real will not careless about the size of your boobs.
I love small breasts! My wife's are a "B" and I like her to wear bras that make her look smaller. "A" would be fine with me. You are going to find a guy who loves the way you look...and really be turned on with your breasts.
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My first post on this thread must have been censored, perhaps part of it was too crude... but I just wanted to get my point across is that for many guys, myself included, size does not necessarily correlate to likeability. Sometimes its the inverse in fact.
I used to date a guy a few years ago.
He sounded very interested in me back then..until some day when I heard him talking to his friend about my cousin's big boobs.
I mean, big boobs always attract attention but the fact that he even COMMENTED on them saying "wow, man.., did you see her boobs?" and gave an evil look to his friends.., was a turn off for me!!!
I dumped him right away. My cousin's boobs were too important for him.
Thanks for the replies. My self esteem has taken quite a hit lately. THe last time I had to attract a new man was 22 yrs ago when I was 22. Naked at 22 and 44 looks very different. I just feel very self conscious when I think about being naked in front of a man other than my stbx. It's a scarey thought. I'm no where near dating but sometimes I try to envision it in the future.
It's like a choice between huge layer cakes or cupcakes. Both are delicious and there's only so much a man can stuff in his mouth at once. I wouldn't turn down either.
Thanks for the replies. My self esteem has taken quite a hit lately. THe last time I had to attract a new man was 22 yrs ago when I was 22. Naked at 22 and 44 looks very different. I just feel very self conscious when I think about being naked in front of a man other than my stbx. It's a scarey thought. I'm no where near dating but sometimes I try to envision it in the future.
If he is there and stays there when you start undressing, believe me he wants to see you naked and I wager apart from scars, tattoos of other surface details hidden under your clothes he already has a pretty good idea of exactly what you look like without your clothes, knows exactly how big your breasts are and is probably just VERY thrilled that he is with a sexy naked woman.
Crap...just lost a looooong supportive reply! Must have been too much hot air!!!
Just know that nervous is normal... Keep working on yourself, KNOW that you are ok, that you are lovable. Once you love yourself and are happy with who you are.... that is the confidence you need! Keep telling yourself..."his loss". Get a mantra (mine was the song from Caddy Shack..."I'm alright, nobody worry bout me..."). Find something you LOVE to do, and do it. Make yourself happy...and it shines thru, then body image is less of an issue anyway!
I just feel very self conscious when I think about being naked in front of a man other than my stbx. It's a scarey thought. I'm no where near dating but sometimes I try to envision it in the future.
Remember ... they're just as afraid of you, as you are of them.
Attraction radar is a funny thing. Sure, there are guys that are inherently attracted to larger breasts. I'm not one of them. And as you have seen here, there are plenty of guys that truly don't much care what you're size is.
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Re: Question about boobs? 
The main thing is to be confident with what you have! That is a bigger turn on then big boobs.
Must have been too much hot air!!!
