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Old 05-12-2012, 05:37 PM   #1 (permalink)
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How important are they really? I have been dealing with infidelity and divorce for a while and I have lost a lot of weight. I didn't have much to begin with and now they are almost non-existant. Less than an A really. Is this going to be a problem when I am ready to date again? I normally wear padded bras for clothing to look better but when dating is this deceptive?

I realize this may sound like a bizarre thing to worry about but this is the crazy stuff that goes through my mind.
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Old 05-12-2012, 05:42 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I personally wouldn't wear a padded bra, unless it was for myself and no one else. (And I've heard a lot of men remark that it is "false advertising" anyways).

Bottom line... If something like the size of your girly-girls affects a man's willingness to date you - then you've done yourself a huge favor anyways.

Don't worry too much about it - men love all sorts of body types!
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Old 05-12-2012, 05:54 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Its not a big concern to me, I think it depends on the guy.

I'd suggest the padded bra if it makes you look better - I've never heard of the "false advertising" claim - I'd certainly prefer a padded bra over having fakes installed.
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Old 05-12-2012, 06:09 PM   #4 (permalink)
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if thats all they are worried about is your boobs, you really dont need them.
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Old 05-12-2012, 06:39 PM   #5 (permalink)
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For me a woman just needs the legs and the knowledge of how to use them to turn me on

But as for your weight, you want to look healthy and fit at the very least
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Old 05-12-2012, 06:50 PM   #6 (permalink)
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and dont get a boob job to try and find a guy.
he and you should love you the way you are.

if you are satisfied wearing a padded bra for filling out your clothes then thats fine. i wouldnt consider that being deceptive.
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Boobs are not important at all to me. Not at all. Padded bras are a bit of a turn off just because it covers up the real you and makes me think you're not happy with yourself.
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My boobs are tiny as well but if my man likes me for my boobs then he's not worth it.
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as lffa said, its attitude baby, rock the attitude and you have sexiness.
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How important are they really? I have been dealing with infidelity and divorce for a while and I have lost a lot of weight. I didn't have much to begin with and now they are almost non-existant. Less than an A really. Is this going to be a problem when I am ready to date again? I normally wear padded bras for clothing to look better but when dating is this deceptive?

I realize this may sound like a bizarre thing to worry about but this is the crazy stuff that goes through my mind.
Tell ya what I won't strap a 12" dong to my leg if you won't wear a padded bra.. LOL! Really more than a mouth full is a waste in my opionion! I want to look into a woman's eyes not her boobs.
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Old 05-12-2012, 07:31 PM   #11 (permalink)
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I don't know why, but I couldn't care less about the size of a woman's boobs.
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My husband never cared either, I've asked him this question. Fake ones to him are the turn off.
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Old 05-12-2012, 09:24 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Would you really want to date a man whose main concern was the size of your boobs? It's rather like a woman being fixated on the size of a man's penis...

Size doesn't matter!
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Old 05-12-2012, 09:31 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Would you really want to date a man whose main concern was the size of your boobs? It's rather like a woman being fixated on the size of a man's penis...

Size doesn't matter!
difference is...
when we say it, we mean it
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