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Old 05-14-2012, 02:54 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I want to hear it!! What do you guys LOVE or say "I wish my wife would ______________"

I'm not a prude, pretty much anything flies in bed...but do you have 'tips' or things that feel really good I could do? Looking to improve my techniques.
What about non $exual things? What would you like to see more of?

Been married ten years and just want to keep things fun.
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Submission. Rope bondage.

Cooking a nice dinner wearing only an apron, then serving it from under the table.

Drive in theater sex.
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Submission. Rope bondage.

Cooking a nice dinner wearing only an apron, then serving it from under the table.

Drive in theater sex.
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Dinner from under the table...NICE! WILL TRY!!! Fun idea.
That would be fun, too. There's a drive in theater about an hour away. Maybe we should make a date!! Thanks for the suggestions!
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If I were still happy in my situation....

Honestly just some flirting... Sexy Texts and/or pictures... Morning horseplay with a promise for later.... That always gives a guy something to look forward to. We are pretty simple creatures us dudes!
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If I were still happy in my situation....

Honestly just some flirting... Sexy Texts and/or pictures... Morning horseplay with a promise for later.... That alaways give a guy something to look forward to. We are pretty simple creatures us dudes!
We do pictures/texts with dirty talk. Yesterday I played with some toys and sent him pics while doing and was waiting when he got home. I DO Like the idea of playing with a promise for later. Never done that before - thought it would be 'rude' to give him blue balls?? LOL I thought blue balls were a big no no. Though I suppose if I played just a little in a friendly way and left him ready 'on purpose' it could be fun...

Thanks for the suggestion!!
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Yesterday I played with some toys and sent him pics while doing and was waiting when he got home. I DO Like the idea of playing with a promise for later. Never done that before - thought it would be 'rude' to give him blue balls?? LOL I thought blue balls were a big no no. Though I suppose if I played just a little in a friendly way and left him ready 'on purpose' it could be fun... ok... THAT would absolutely do it for me.... knowing you were doing that would drive me up the freakin wall!!!

And for me personally, being a teased a little is a good thing.. Eventually I take it, and thats a good outcome for both! Your hubby is one lucky man!
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If I were still happy in my situation....

Honestly just some flirting... Sexy Texts and/or pictures... Morning horseplay with a promise for later.... That always gives a guy something to look forward to. We are pretty simple creatures us dudes!
yeah, this is good.

Naughty texting in the day, telling him you can't wait to do certain things to him and then following through.. things like this are SO easy and make such a big difference!

if I know I'm going to get some when I come home, it makes me happier all day.
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I'm not a guy, but my man loves it when I tell him to "f*ck me like a Wh*re" and act all sl*ty for him.

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Meet him at the door wearing one of his dress shirts (maybe with a tie). Lead him to the shower and undress him. Slide into the shower with him. Bring a cold beer with you. Let him just relax while you clean, pamper, and pleasure him like he's the last guy on the face of the earth.
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Yesterday I played with some toys and sent him pics while doing and was waiting when he got home. I DO Like the idea of playing with a promise for later. Never done that before - thought it would be 'rude' to give him blue balls?? LOL I thought blue balls were a big no no. Though I suppose if I played just a little in a friendly way and left him ready 'on purpose' it could be fun... ok... THAT would absolutely do it for me.... knowing you were doing that would drive me up the freakin wall!!!

And for me personally, being a teased a little is a good thing.. Eventually I take it, and thats a good outcome for both! Your hubby is one lucky man!
Thanks! I try not to do it too often bc I don't want it to become old
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yeah, this is good.

Naughty texting in the day, telling him you can't wait to do certain things to him and then following through.. things like this are SO easy and make such a big difference!

if I know I'm going to get some when I come home, it makes me happier all day.

That Is A Good Point. Never thought if it that way before. Thanks!




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I'm not a guy, but my man loves it when I tell him to "f*ck me like a Wh*re" and act all sl*ty for him.

my hubby likes when I am ****ty, too! I've never been called a ***** but I bet if I asked him to **** me like one he would get A kick out of it! I'll Try It and let you know


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Meet him at the door wearing one of his dress shirts (maybe with a tie). Lead him to the shower and undress him. Slide into the shower with him. Bring a cold beer with you. Let him just relax while you clean, pamper, and pleasure him like he's the last guy on the face of the earth.
I like this, too! He is very picky about his time though so I may have to carve out some time or at least give him a heads up. Do you think this ruins it?
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Give him a razor and ask him to shave you. Then ask if you can return the favor. Don't forget to take advantage of the new smooth surface right after!
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Yep. This about sums it up.

Put a chair right in front of the door. Have a can of whipped cream in your hand, and when he comes in, spray cover your tipples and special spot with it. Tell him tonight he's having dessert first.
Ooh! This is fun. There is a new alcoholic whip cream I hear is good. Will try!





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Give him a razor and ask him to shave you. Then ask if you can return the favor. Don't forget to take advantage of the new smooth surface right after!
We are already hairless. Maybe I can ask him to shave my legs...
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Call me a girl, but I like when she serves breakfast in bed.
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My wife served me a home made breakfast on the patio a while back while wearing lingerie.
It was difficult to eat.

She will come out of the bedroom sometimes nude and straddle me and we start kissing...

Today she asked me to come in the bedroom to show me something. She was naked...
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Meet him at the door in a school girl outfit and ask him to help you with your homework!
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