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Old 06-02-2012, 11:35 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Wel i am wandering if im goin over board on not, here is my case, im yet to get married right never had sex before but now most of the times if i go take a bath i find myself playn up with my manhood (murstbatn). At 1st i ws experiment if i can get rock hard erection then i ended up cumn. So im warried does this behavioural change happen to anyone prior to getn married or im just getn lustful, are there any side effects to it, if yes what are they?
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Old 06-03-2012, 01:42 PM   #2 (permalink)
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the only side effect is hair growth on your palm!

Just kidding. Yes, it's perfectly natural. My guess is you're just a late bloomer... don't have a father figure to talk to about it & found a site you could ask about it.

Seriously- it's normal in your teens to do this. To think lustful thoughts, even if you didn't "want to".
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Wel i am wandering if im goin over board on not, here is my case, im yet to get married right never had sex before but now most of the times if i go take a bath i find myself playn up with my manhood (murstbatn). At 1st i ws experiment if i can get rock hard erection then i ended up cumn. So im warried does this behavioural change happen to anyone prior to getn married or im just getn lustful, are there any side effects to it, if yes what are they?
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You are 27 years old. I started masturbating at age 9.

Masturbating is normal and healthy. In fact if one does not do this they will likely have wet dreams.
I would get my T levels checked before I married.

How old is your fiance? What is her expereince?
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what, you haven't been doing it since you were about 10?????
of course it's normal!
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what, you haven't been doing it since you were about 10?????
of course it's normal!
Is 27 a metric value?
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Entropy, well my fiance is 23yrz, and a virgin from birth same with me. Anyway 27 is not a metric value but age
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