My wife and I use to watch porn together years ago but she HATES the new stuff. Too much over the top, fake screaming and ridiculous breast implants. She has no problem with me watching it because I'm not J'ing off when I do. My energy and everything else is saved for the Mrs!
Let me perfectly clear, not all women read romance novels, watch romantic movies or drool over movie stars.
That's a cheap excuse to try to explain away why men watch porn.
DO NOT even try to compare the two, it's lazy & shows that men just don't get it.
Porn is for sexual gratification & the objectification of women, bottom line, no if's, and's, or but's about it.
A woman thinking some guy is hot is NOT the same as a man jerking off to porn.
Hell, even a guy thinking a woman is hot is not the same as jerking it to porn.
There is no sugar coating what porn is for, it's 100% for seeking sexual gratification.
IMO this shows me that YOU dont get it. That's why I said mars/venus thing. 90% of time I look at it I'm not even pulling the pork. If you want to gain a better understanding of how men think you should probably be a little more open to honest answers.
Edit: And "objectifying" of women? C'mon. I was actually trying to be as honest and forthcoming as possible with my answer. But to you can't honestly believe watching this is objectifying women. If you new my life, how my single mom raised me, how I treat my younger sisters and 2 daughters, that word would never be typed from your fingers.
arrrhhhh i am so fed up of this bull**** of women not being sexually driven drivel, i think women are very sexually driven, just as we are visual.
Men that believe that we aren't really need to go back to their cave.
I use porn but then i am not in a relationship really and i am more interested in my fav acts as in example doggy style, not the people in it. I still get a kick out of watching a guy jacking off for me, or written sex aswell.
now my estranged was very insecure as to me watching porn with black guys in it, i wonder why?
So i suppose guys that like watching porn here would be happy with their wives and girlfriends viewing porn of guys jacking off and written cyber sex, i mean what ever gets us off right, what's good for the goose is good for the gander, oh noooo i am sure you'd make rules that we can't do that, but oh yes we can
Do I masturbate? yep, sometimes - sometimes a lot more in the past but I have ALWAYS thought about my husband (helps that I think him really sexy and love him heaps)
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There is nothing noble in being superior to your Fellow man. True nobility is being superior to your former self.
--Ernest Hemingway--
okay if porn is soley for the objectification of women why are there guys that look like they have been in the gym 35 hours a week. Jeez porn is not about the objectification of women. Both sexes are objectified. I mean really really porn is about objectifying sex not the actors in it. I mean if all porn was is a naked woman getting her self off and that was the only type of porn yea. But there is all kinds of crazy stuff out there. i mean clown porn for goodness sakes is out there. The only person I could consider watching a woman with bozo the clown is a WOMAN that has a clown fetish.
if a woman sits there and watchs a greek god of a gym rat jacking off they who is getting objectified. I hate people that just says porn objectifies women. Not all porn does some does but that's only if your into it. I can guarantee gay male porn doesn't objectify women does it? Porn is simply made because someone wants to watch it and it makes a lot of money.
Women are different than men but we both have the urge to procreate seared into our DNA.
__________________ evidence gathering thread the lie and the truth
There is nothing noble in being superior to your Fellow man. True nobility is being superior to your former self.
--Ernest Hemingway--
Let me perfectly clear, not all women read romance novels, watch romantic movies or drool over movie stars.
That's a cheap excuse to try to explain away why men watch porn.
DO NOT even try to compare the two, it's lazy & shows that men just don't get it.
Porn is for sexual gratification & the objectification of women, bottom line, no if's, and's, or but's about it.
A woman thinking some guy is hot is NOT the same as a man jerking off to porn.
Hell, even a guy thinking a woman is hot is not the same as jerking it to porn.
There is no sugar coating what porn is for, it's 100% for seeking sexual gratification.
I think i understand what's going on here. Some people (mostly women) aren't happy if men gratify themselves the way men like to be gratified. Sexually? um. DUH?
Women like to be gratified, too. Sometimes sexually, sometimes otherwise. Men too. It's interesting that some people find it a useful exercise to belittle the things that turn men on and celebrate the the things that turn women on. Men and women are different.
It's about time someone told the truth: a woman's turn ons are no better than a man's. Men like things, women do. Since when is it a sin to be a man. Seriously. We are human beings with our own desires too!
The problem is men use porn as an excuse for being lazy in a relationship. Now, I'm not talking about a single person. Sex is suppose to be an expression of love. Love is caring more about the other person than yourself. Porn = self-love. That's not love for another person. Men use porn as an excuse for feeling stressed, worried, bored, aging, any excuse will do. They just want a quick easy feel good for themselves only. What a bunch of lazy a**hol**. I say, men, get up off your lazy a** and go mow the yard, clean the kitchen, take care of kids, make love to your wife, cook dinner, whatever. Just quit thinking you're entitled to love only yourself. It's like you're being some selfish little spoiled brat. Grow up. Be a man.
I think i understand what's going on here. Some people (mostly women) aren't happy if men gratify themselves the way men like to be gratified. Sexually? um. DUH?
Women like to be gratified, too. Sometimes sexually, sometimes otherwise. Men too. It's interesting that some people find it a useful exercise to belittle the things that turn men on and celebrate the the things that turn women on. Men and women are different.
It's about time someone told the truth: a woman's turn ons are no better than a man's. Men like things, women do. Since when is it a sin to be a man. Seriously. We are human beings with our own desires too!
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