Anyone want to help me with math? I have two liberal arts degrees and a law degree, all because I hate counting.
If the average man has 7 and the average woman has 4,
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There's a relatively small core of women sleeping with a relatively large number of men, raising men's numbers significantly?
Or am I doing that wrong?
My experience has always been that there's a few guys in any given social scene that get around with a lot of the girls, not vice versa (stereotypes about '****s' be damned).
if it bothered me i would not have married her. Perhaps its because of my background among other things but i have to truly know another human being and be deep with that person before i get real serious in a relationship. If i see things or how they lived their life and it disgusts me and is nothing on what i want or how i would live my life i try to avoid those individuals because i know (from experience) should i ignore the warning signs it will only come back to haunt me and lead to an eventual failure in the relationship in the not so far future.
That is something that often leads to divorce but the divorce rate will only rise in the United States so its expected.
Anyone want to help me with math? I have two liberal arts degrees and a law degree, all because I hate counting.
If the average man has 7 and the average woman has 4,
? There's a relatively small core of women sleeping with a relatively large number of men, raising men's numbers significantly?
Or am I doing that wrong?
My experience has always been that there's a few guys in any given social scene that get around with a lot of the girls, not vice versa (stereotypes about '****s' be damned).
Its not hard
And you are correct
The same "sl#tty" women get used up a lot and rack up a very high number. The "sl#ty woman" has a very very high number and she will get around with a lot of other men. The "sl#tty" woman will be in a small % of the overall population of female. It may appear that men who are players get with all the girls but of course this is not true they go for women who are the easiest to get and the easiest to bag that is how they get high numbers. The average male and female does not have a really high number at all the average male has a higher number because he happens to fall into a situation to get with a "high Number" female who just happens to want him for the night.
the higher the number of sexual partners the more likely you are to divorce. The way a person treats sex and their sex life is a huge reflection on the individual overall and nobody of sane mind could argue otherwise.
As it stands the higher number of sexual partners when not married leads to a higher chance of divorce.
I have some stats on this i can dig up somewhere its really shocking to see that on average the likelihood for divorce increases rapidly the higher the number. As a divorce lawyer i do know a lot of this but of course individuals divorcing dont disclose their sexual past or life but i feel i get a good feeling on how they treat sex based on how they act and by observing their behavior among other things that get disclosed. For instance who was cheating, someone else knocked up, affairs, drama etc.
Well I can tell you my wife's number when we met ...0
And well..uh it did turn to 2 including me after our marriage but we got past the rough parts years ago.
Mine is a closely guarded secret but suffice to say that its considerably higher
You're completely right, GTDad, I do have a double standard! I think numbers are nobody's business and I don't really care, but when you start getting over about 50, I start looking askance...
So yeah. I'm inconsistent. Newsflash!
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according to some dude named Kinsey, it is 4 lifetime partners for women, and 7 for men ... on average.
Then I guess both of us are way under average since we are each others first and only for 40 years. Of course when you start at 15 & 16 and get married a year later because she is pregnant, I guess there isn't much of a chance otherwise!
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The same "sl#tty" women get used up a lot and rack up a very high number. The "sl#ty woman" has a very very high number and she will get around with a lot of other men. The "sl#tty" woman will be in a small % of the overall population of female. It may appear that men who are players get with all the girls but of course this is not true they go for women who are the easiest to get and the easiest to bag that is how they get high numbers. The average male and female does not have a really high number at all the average male has a higher number because he happens to fall into a situation to get with a "high Number" female who just happens to want him for the night.
Whoa, there, buckaroo, can we be careful how we throw around the word "sl*t"? According to you a woman with a higher number is a worthless sl*t, while a man with a higher number is just taking advantage of his opportunities. The old standard, "he's a ladies man, she's a wh*re" thing. But it's 2012 now, and I find your assumptions appalling. I only wish I could find that little finger-waggy icon.
And I agree with the others, a lot of the difference has to do with women under-reporting.
Good God I threads like this on this forum are my biggest trigger. It would not bother me if my wife was with 1,2,5 or even 10 guys (She was with one). What makes it bad is that his shadow has loomed large over our relationship since the beginning. I will not go into the details here ever again but I honestly wish she never told me. She says she would feel horrible carrying that around with here all these years. Lucky me I have been able to carry that load for her.
Whoa, there, buckaroo, can we be careful how we throw around the word "sl*t"? According to you a woman with a higher number is a worthless sl*t, while a man with a higher number is just taking advantage of his opportunities. The old standard, "he's a ladies man, she's a wh*re" thing. But it's 2012 now, and I find your assumptions appalling. I only wish I could find that little finger-waggy icon.
And I agree with the others, a lot of the difference has to do with women under-reporting.
the guy is a man wh#re if he has a high number. Does that make you feel better?
I only used the word "sl#t" because it is often used to describe a woman who sleeps around a lot and has a high number. Sorry if this is not politically correct for you i did not mean to offend any individual.
your worried about one guy? most of us have 15-30 or more before us. you are lucky and should not worry at all.
Not to be rude but your statement is naive. I would rather know by wife had 15 ons that one passionate physical relationship that defined her early adulthood. You see dude because of family dynamics we are connected to his family for life. I am an unintentional cuckold.
She says she has forgotten him but there are to many triggers for me to ever believe that.
according to some dude named Kinsey, it is 4 lifetime partners for women, and 7 for men ... on average.
The key part of those numbers is the "on average."
Particularly when you consider the number of women is about the same as the number of men out there. How do you get a mismatch like that? There are a few women who run up the number for the men. Many women have a number below 4, and a few run up very high. Not many men go up anywhere near as much as those few women.
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