06-21-2012, 07:43 PM
Join Date: Jun 2012
| | Re: guys insight please!
The porn thing is nothing (agree's with lamaga) it's a normal thing all around. He probably denied it because he figured you would get mad, or he isn't that comfortable talking to you about it, so he hides it. Maybe he's a little ashamed of it.. that also pretty common.
To get past this part, maybe stop by a adult store and pick one up.. maybe even pick up a couple other things while you're there.
As far as now saying he doesn't want to get married... figure this out BEFORE you do. Maybe he is second guessing, maybe he is worried that he won't be able to provide for you guys given his recent work outage (huge blow to the male ego there), maybe it's just cold feet. It could be someone he knows is having marital problems and doesn't want to ever have to go through them (it's like having your nuts in a vice sometimes)
Either way, the only way you will figure this out is... communication. Don't be confrontive about it.. just talk. (I wish I could go back and take my own advice here..lol)