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Old 06-27-2012, 02:48 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Okay Guys, I was wondering.....

If your wife sends you sexy texts while you both are at work, like "i can't wait to suck your ****" or something like that, does it turn you guys on and get you excited to come home? Do you guys like these kind of messages!?
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Old 06-27-2012, 02:52 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Really? Is this really a question?
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Old 06-27-2012, 02:54 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I wish I got these...

Does that answer your question?
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Old 06-27-2012, 02:57 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Really? Is this really a question?
Lol yes it is! I send them to my hubby..but he usually just responds with a smiley face. And in person when I say naughty raunchy things..he sorta gets shy and changes the subject. I definitely opened him up to talking dirty and hair pulling and rough-ness when we started dating as he was shy..but maybe he's shy about this too?? Or he just doesn't like it?
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I wish. And if she did, I probably get a speeding ticket.
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It makes me feel cheap,used and a piece of meat.
And I love it when my my wife treat me that way!
She sends naughty text to me at work like that sometimes and it really gets me going...I love it!
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I wish. And if she did, I probably get a speeding ticket.
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no it turns me off and makes me feel like a piece of meat....
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I have sent my hubby photos of me masturbating while he was a work...and in return he did send me a photo of his hard c*ock in the bathroom at work...but that's the only real feedback I've gotten... maybe I just need to send less words and more photos!
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Get photo's sometimes,that da bomb
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Wait, so you are saying you aren't sure if he likes when you send him dirty texts....

then a few posts later you say he sent a picture of his **** from work?

My guess is he likes it... a lot!!! his problem isn't in liking it. His problem is he is probably unsure of what to say back. Especially if he used to be very shy. He just doesn't know what to say or how to say it and is worried about sounding stupid or embarrassing himself.

Keep it up. He'll get the hang of it.
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Wait, so you are saying you aren't sure if he likes when you send him dirty texts....

then a few posts later you say he sent a picture of his **** from work?

My guess is he likes it... a lot!!! his problem isn't in liking it. His problem is he is probably unsure of what to say back. Especially if he used to be very shy. He just doesn't know what to say or how to say it and is worried about sounding stupid or embarrassing himself.

Keep it up. He'll get the hang of it.
Lol its been 5 years and he just sends his usual smiley. In my head right after I send the text i make a bet with myself that ill get a smiley response (I always win). I literally let him do anything he wants and he does... he's not shy in the bedroom anymore...but texting? Ahh! Lol

He did go out of town for a night and when we video chatted I pulled my top down..he said he was trying quickly to snap a screen shot but was unsuccessful. Lol. I guess visuals are his thing...but not actual messages..so should I continue to send them or just stop..cause I don't get the response I get from a message like I do with a visual.
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I would figure she lost her phone so now I have to call Sprint to shut it off.
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I would figure she lost her phone so now I have to call Sprint to shut it off.
This made me LOL!!!
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Lol its been 5 years and he just sends his usual smiley. In my head right after I send the text i make a bet with myself that ill get a smiley response (I always win). I literally let him do anything he wants and he does... he's not shy in the bedroom anymore...but texting? Ahh! Lol

He did go out of town for a night and when we video chatted I pulled my top down..he said he was trying quickly to snap a screen shot but was unsuccessful. Lol. I guess visuals are his thing...but not actual messages..so should I continue to send them or just stop..cause I don't get the response I get from a message like I do with a visual.
Some guys just aren't good with words. I would be much less worried about what he texts back and worried about what he's like when he gets home. That is more telling than what he texts back.
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