07-02-2012, 06:13 PM
Join Date: Jun 2012
| | x girlfriends call your house?
i was thinking about something that could have been a major factor in my wife getting annoyed, and her apparent dependency or paranoia.
i have had some weird x girlfriend situations, girls i dated YEARS ago.
one called my house, asked for me, called a few times. seemed to hang up on my wife. Finally tried to talk to my wife and starts telling her way back when she knew me she knew i would do well....... blah blah
Another calls, three times, actually gets to the point of trying to be my wifes friend or something and asking for emails. My wife kind of freaked out and just didnt know what do to with her.
Another lives in our same area, my wife knows of her through other people but not her personally. she goes on a kick one day hunting down my wife and telling her what a jerk i was YEARS ago and how she should leave me, then she comes back again acting nice to her.
All of the girls seemed to ask about me, two asked to talk to me directly.
i havent talked to any of them, as i really dont care what they are up to its been YEARS and i have no interest.
But i have noticed the times this has happen my wife gives me this twenty question routine about if i have talked to them. i honestly havent.
the first in particuliar has called many times, i dont answer the phone, im not a phone answerer, so she hangs up or gets my wife.
who even though it has let up now FINALLY i can tell she was never happy about it and im not sure she still quite is. It has been about five years now since i had a girlfriend other than her.
And my wife was my girlfriend before that one as well.
i havent cheated, havent even talked to these women. i cant even figure out why they called me. one i hadnt dated in like almost fifteen years.
i have to correct something. I DID talk to one, there was a fourth one. who was actually a x fiance. i still have pictures of her mostly just from my personal history though, of my life not because of any actual feelings toward her at this point other than wishing her well perhaps. i talked to her ONCE when she called. i tried to make it all civil, asked her if she wanted to come over and meet my wife, bring her boyfriend whatever and make it like normal just for old time rehashing. She never came and said she wanted to but "didnt feel comfortable with my wife there".
never heard from her again other than through other sources that she married someone else finally.
my wife seems particuliarly skeptical of her, but it was totally on the up and up. im not a cheater, no interest. But i didnt tell her she called until one day i mentioned it out of the blue, and she kind of wondered why i hadnt mentioned it before. But it really didnt occur to me, as there was nothing to it.
Last edited by bribrius; 07-02-2012 at 06:19 PM.