My husband is white. He still loves my round and firm ass that you can balance a drink on, along my generous bust line. Hubby loves to cop a feel whenever he can. I have woken up to his hand caressing my boob or felt my butt being squeezed and slapped.
I don't believe my husband when he says that my belly doesn't bother him. Changing my eating habits and taking care of digestive issues have made my stomach less noticeable. I always gain weight in the midsection when I am on hormonal birth control; I know there will be some shrinkage when I come off the Pill.
My husband is white. He still loves my round and firm ass that you can balance a drink on, along my generous bust line. Hubby loves to cop a feel whenever he can. I have woken up to his hand caressing my boob or felt my butt being squeezed and slapped.
I don't believe my husband when he says that my belly doesn't bother him. Changing my eating habits and taking care of digestive issues have made my stomach less noticeable. I always gain weight in the midsection when I am on hormonal birth control; I know there will be some shrinkage when I come off the Pill.
Do not kid yourself FYD. Lotsa men like women that are "built for comfort". That is exactly how I would categorize my wife and I love it!
The missus ain't getting younger nowadays, but she maintains herself very well to this day as best she can and I do give my compliments regularly - which I never used to do before. She still knocks me out with those long legs of hers at times.
Hubby likes big boobs - I got 'em. Anything else is up for grabs, if he has any other real preference I am clueless.
Still got the boobs, about the same weight as when we married--most people think I'm 10-15 years younger than I actually am.
All his medical issues have caused major changes in him. He's 6'5" but about 280 lbs which makes a beer belly. His hair has grayed and he doesn't seem very interested in doing anything with it. He's clean, well groomed, handsome and still makes me weak in the knees.
But apparently I don't him anymore and he won't come near me with a ten foot-pole--internet porn gets all his attention these days.
What a shame...most men would kill for a wife that still found them desirable at the age of 51 and still wanted to jump their bones daily--but guess I didn't get the pick of the litter, huh?
does your wife now (or at the time you married) have your ideal or preferred body type?
if not, then did you marry her despite that fact because you were attracted to her presonality?
I married my wife cause she had the ideal face, it was her face that caught my attention, and her bubbly personality. Then my eyes moved down once she starting putting her hands down my pants. She was my ideal then, and she is still my ideal.
I married my wife cause she had the ideal face, it was her face that caught my attention, and her bubbly personality. Then my eyes moved down once she starting putting her hands down my pants. She was my ideal then, and she is still my ideal.
I can't for the life of me think why that should be
My wife had an "ideal" body, she's curvy with a butt and boobs, but not chunky in the least. I guess something close to a Kim Kardashian type of shape.
I dated girls who didn't fit that mold before her, but after the fact, I'm glad I married someone with a butt and boobs. I love a nice butt, but i LOVE boobs. Hers aren't huge, but a nice size, and after 14 years I still go nuts when I see them.
I have never been a breast man. Always been a ass man. We have 2 kids and my wife's body is better after having kids. She is my ideal type. Tall, lean with a great ass. Posted via Mobile Device
I think I see why you started this thread, you feel that because your husband looks at other women, ogales them as you said, he is no longer intrested in you, which makes you think he doesn't feel you are his ideal body type.
Why do you ask this? Does he no longer want to be intimate? If you had no knowledge of his viewing other woman, would you feel he wasn't intrested in you?
I ask because I have a gorgeous wife, sexy as hel*, long legs, stacked up top and slender sleek feminine tummy and she uses her body to drive me crazy. I love her body I really, really do, however, in the past I have looked at porn, hide it from her and made her feel that she wasn't enough, or that I wasn't thrilled to be with her. nothing could have been further from the truth.
I looked at porn, because I liked certain things that i wasn't comfortable asking her for. For example, lingere, I love it, but she doesn't really care too much for it. She feels what's the point of wrapping paper, its about what's inside. Well I like it, does that mean I'm wrong for liking it, I'm still a man with my desires. Just because she doesn't like the same thing doesn't mean I no longer have the desire to see gorgeous women looking nice and seductive. I wish she would dress up for me but she rarely does, says it takes too long, ins't comfortable, what's the point if it's only on for a few minutes. So I don't get to see her in it, does that mean I don't desire her, no not at all. If I look at some chick online who wants that attention from men, am I wrong? (According to my wife, yes)
Or for example, I like watching two women together, I'm not going to ask my wife to do that, she's never said, "you know, I'd love to make love to another beautiful woman, wanna watch." So because I like looking at things she doesn't want to do, or I would never ask her to do because she's a human and I respect her decisions and thoughts doesn't mean I don't find her smoking hot. It just means I like things she might not be into.
I don't look at porn anymore, it makes my wife feel like she's not enough, and she is. Way more. I can't explain how I see things and she takes care of me so well in the bedroom, this issue is so minute so I don't want her thinking that. So, to show her I don't need porn, I stopped. I never choose porn over her, though, that's a different issue altogether.
I looked at porn, because there was no one else to please, no emotions of feelings involved. It was all about me, and I'm a very giving lover, so it allowed me to kind of unwind. It had nothing to do with her. If I see a beautiful woman, I don't think, gee I'd rather have her than my wife. it doesn't mean I don't appreciate beauty though.
one time a guy friend told me "show me the most beautiful girl in the world, and I will show you the guy who is tired of ****ing her".
I disagree with this completely. There is a saying that being a man is not making love to a differant woman every night, it's making love to the same woman every night.
To me it's about being desired by a woman that can have just about any guy she wants. But it's so much more than sex, it's sharing your life, your existence. I don't want any other woman. And we've benn married 12 years, so I'm not a newly wed, though sometimes it still feels like we are on our honeymoon.
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