Of course guys can fake it. Obviously, it's easier if you're using condoms, or it's the second (or third) time around, though... Pretty hard to fake a bare back blow job.
I think I faked an orgasm once with my wife. I forget why, whether I just missed my window or what. Don't think I got busted.
I don't believe my husband ever has....I'm sure of it... nor have I ever in my life...once we get started , we both WANT IT BADLY... It is gonna culminate in the big bang.... If he blew before me when I was on the verge, I'd want to hit him (just kidding)...but I did tell him -he is gonna do it again with a - He could do that once upon a time..he didn't mind.
He didn't always "need" his during these last 3 yrs as I was hormonally needing it more than him... I remember this feeling of sadness wash over me the 1st time he said......"that's ok, I'll save it for tomorrow " after I got mine.... He would never fake anything. He was just happy to give me mine.
I've never had to fake it, although with some of the anti depressants there were some issues with performance unfortunately, and once in a long while when I'm extremely tired I lose stamina, so to speak. But if I'm up I will finish. I think there are guys that probably fake it.
When my wife and I first got together, we went at it like the proverbial rabbits...2-3 times a night. (Not REALLY bragging...I'd never displayed that kind of recovery/stamina before and it's disappeared as I've gotten older.) Back then, I'll admit...I faked it once or twice. Second or third round of the night, taking longer than I could tell was comfortable for her, and using a condom. So, I faked it. Posted via Mobile Device
My husband once admitted that he faked it, and I knew right away. Honestly, I don't know how a woman can NOT know... He was taking tramadol at the time and could go for hours!! Sometimes awesome, other times excruciating!! Sometimes it still takes him awhile to orgasm. Last night he took two hours. (Mental block). Posted via Mobile Device
I faked it the night I lost my virginity. I was 16 years old. We went at it for what seemed like hours. I got tired and couldn't finish. I don't believe I was physically mature enough to have an orgasm. I didn't have my first 'wet' dream until a few months later.
Since then, I have faked it a couple of times when going for a second or third round. Just gets to a point where you get tired and are not feeling it.
Yes... Several times, bareback and all... I used to do it to spare her feelings that she couldn't bring me to orgasm. Now that I'm more confident in myself, its 'ok' to quit when she's done.
I do know this stings her ego a bit more. But a nice side affect is her 'level of effort' has increased rather than just taking it for granted that all I need is friction.... So, quitting and/or faking isn't really necessary anymore very often.
Yes... Several times, bareback and all... I used to do it to spare her feelings that she couldn't bring me to orgasm. Now that I'm more confident in myself, its 'ok' to quit when she's done.
Interesting, Racer, thanks for sharing that! We have sex more often than H can orgasm, so I am used to that-- although I do prefer it when he comes.
My H used to fake it in a previous marriage when they were TTC -- apparently he was pretty irked that after years of dodging sex, his ex was suddenly demanding it on schedule. They did get pregnant, though, so no harm done.
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Be Honest-Have you ever faked it? 
- He could do that once upon a time..he didn't mind. 
