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Old 07-25-2012, 09:32 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Guys...What do you like to see women wearing??

So, I'm on the dating scene, and I'm kind of clueless as to what men like to see women wearing. Don't be funny and say "nothing" lol. I'm talking about when you go out to dinner, dancing, drinks..whatever. I'm a jeans girl, but willing to dress differently just to change things up a bit.

And include jewlery as well.
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Old 07-25-2012, 10:25 PM   #2 (permalink)
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( i am not a guy, sorry to steal the light for a minute here)

Men are all about first impressions when it comes to clothing!!!!
Exsentuate (spelled that wrong) your body, dont dress like a hooker and not a lot of makeup, they are more striken by natural beauty go ahead girl, get your date on!!! wooh hoo.
keep us updated on it!
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Old 07-25-2012, 10:55 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Jewellery - something small/subtle & classy

Light make up or none at all.

I'd prefer a dress, jeans are way too common these days. Know where you're going to beforehand so you can dress accordingly.

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Little black dress. Stockings, but not fishnet or anything. Plunging necklines. I don't prefer heals unless she's really short. Capris. Sun dresses. Anyway dresses are always sexier than pants or jeans.
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yeah, for me if you try to look slvtty I will not engage cause I'd get the impression you wouldn't be loyal in any way shape or form, though most guys probably like that because they see you as an easy lay.

I am way more comfortable around a woman who tends to dress down a little, ie not going for as much attention as she can get - I like a respectable lady that saves much of the sexiness for more intimate occasions. A little cleavage is always kind of fun though.

As to specifics, well I'm really not qualified to answer fashion questions, send pics and I'll tell you if I like

I love a woman in pretty girly colors though, I'm a sucker for pink.
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Old 07-25-2012, 11:13 PM   #6 (permalink)
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It depends on the situation and activity, but I general confident and happy looks the best.

And age appropriate does not mean polyester bad fitting and dowdy.
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Why does the black dress always come up?
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Well because I genuinely think it's hot. When I see my wife in one (rare) I can't keep my hands off her. Bonus points if it's a jersey material that can easily be hiked up.
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Ok, for dinner drinks etc I'd say heels or a pair of good leather boots. No uggs! You want to show you arent afraid of looking like a woman who wears heels.

Wellfitting Jeans with look at me top with maybe a jacket. A leather blazer fits in about anywhere and can look very classy.

A dress or skirt is good too, but make sure they fit. You don't want a mini anything, but snug is good. Do not go for loose or baggy, they make people look either fat, non confident, or like they dont know how to buy clothes.
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Well because I genuinely think it's hot. When I see my wife in one (rare) I can't keep my hands off her. Bonus points if it's a jersey material that can easily be hiked up.

jersey material?
i dont even know what that is hahah!

I think all men are baffled and turned on when they see there woman in something they would rarely wear. but black dresses are appealing to the eye.
I am not disagreeing here!
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Old 07-26-2012, 12:08 AM   #11 (permalink)
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So, I'm on the dating scene, and I'm kind of clueless as to what men like to see women wearing. Don't be funny and say "nothing" lol. I'm talking about when you go out to dinner, dancing, drinks..whatever. I'm a jeans girl, but willing to dress differently just to change things up a bit.

And include jewlery as well.
sun dress. the thin kind, little make up and jewelry doesnt matter
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I think all men are baffled and turned on when they see there woman in something they would rarely wear.
Quoted for truthiness. I think any person is attracted to something out of the norm, if for nothing other than the novelty of it.

As for myself, I've always been a sucker for a woman in a classy, tailored business suit. If there's a pencil skirt as well, all the better.

I'm a big fan for collared dress shirts with the lower neckline on women. I always think of Olivia Dunham on the TV show Fringe when I think of that. When used with a simple gold pendant necklace or string of pearls the results can be outstanding.

If you want to wear jeans for a more casual look when dating, go for it. But I really like the look of simple camisole tops, perhaps with a sport coat unless it's too warm where you are.

And boots. Oh my God, wear boots.

The biggest apparel turn-off I can think of is wearing a T-shirt with a "witty" comment on it. Not only are they almost uniformly unfunny, but they make the person wearing them look completely classless.
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Note to self: Buy more dresses! lol
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yeah, for me if you try to look slvtty I will not engage cause I'd get the impression you wouldn't be loyal in any way shape or form, though most guys probably like that because they see you as an easy lay.

I am way more comfortable around a woman who tends to dress down a little, ie not going for as much attention as she can get - I like a respectable lady that saves much of the sexiness for more intimate occasions. A little cleavage is always kind of fun though.
I could see my husband saying this same thing.

If he was single, he would never consider the "jeans ready to spit they are so tight / boobs hanging out / skirts up to the wazoo" women. He'd look -he's still a man! But he'd never consider. For him, how a woman chooses to dress out & about speaks something of her "character".... too little = too loose.

Clean, well matched, she carries it well, leaving something to the imagination = more respectful and not trying to purposely flaunt & lure men on the prowl.

Dresses are feminine, he likes these on women.
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I like dresses. Not to short though. Prefer black kinda classy look, short pearl neckless, light makeup but if you are in a dark enviroment add a little extra eye shadow so you get the smokey eye look. Heels are a must. Stockings? Maybe. Personally I have a thing for the really old style nudes with seam down the back.
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