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Fantasizing about a new love and a new life.

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#1 ·
So with all the many problems I keep having in my marriage and the fact I am very very unhappy, is it normal to be fantasizing about a new life and a new love with someone else someday?
 
#3 ·
I do it all the time. Then again I recognize it as a fantasy and a nice mental escape from reality. I also fantasize about having spiderman's powers... So, I don't base decisions on fantasy.

I could leave. I chose not to. What I don't like, I change myself (and that is the opposite of telling my wife to do it and dumping it on her). So....... choose. What would you like to change?
 
#4 ·
I fantasize about it also,, but with my track record, I feel I would handle dating like a job interview,, I would be too skeptical.

Especially from being on here, and knowing so many signs to look for. But I'm hoping that would actually help me. In the past, I have not chose wisely.
 
#8 ·
I think it is part of the decision process. If what the spouse has done is so terrible that you just want to be rid of her at all costs, it is an easy decision to D. But if there are good things and bad things, it is a difficult decision whether one is better off staying or D'ing.
 
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What haven't we argued about. And yes my role in all of this is being quick tempered and having no patience which I'm working on; and in my first marriage I ended up with someone who was bi-polar and had an equal temper to mine, and now in my second one I thought I married someone who was laid back and easy going(which is what I need)............but I was wrong.
 
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