07-30-2012, 01:44 PM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | Is it over?
My wife of 8 years says she has really had it this time and actually filed divorce papers.
Long story short, for at least 6 or 7 of those years I have taken her for granted and even treated her badly. I never meant to but I would sometimes say things that would be hurtful and not even realize it. The worst of it though is that I have NEVER initiated sex and I ALWAYS walked away from problems. When she needed me, I wasn't there.
The issue of not being a man or having a backbone (like I have read many on here) has also been an issue. She has told me over and over again what the problems are and I continue to be pathetic, apathetic and destroy our relationship.
She's been berating me through text messages for the last hour, telling me how much she hates me and wants me dead...
I think she's really done this time. I've hurt and ignored the best thing that ever happened to me and I disregarded all of the vows I took at our wedding. I feel like an absolute piece of garbage.