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Old 08-01-2012, 12:02 PM   #31 (permalink)
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WTF... So am i the only guy who hasn't got these toys? I never needed those. Guess i'm a weirdo or something
well all men think that they are the best lovers in the world.


and maybe you are but a vib on her clit while your banging her might open your eyes
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well all men think that they are the best lovers in the world.


and maybe you are but a vib on her clit while your banging her might open your eyes
Men cannot vibrate. Mmmmmmm!!!
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Old 08-01-2012, 12:31 PM   #33 (permalink)
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If my partner showed up with a toy bigger than me I'd be excited by that. I'd love the idea of watching her play with it. I want to see her completely inhibition free ...not worrying about whether or not something is going to hurt my fragile ego.
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well all men think that they are the best lovers in the world.


and maybe you are but a vib on her clit while your banging her might open your eyes
Maybe, but i can do it easily enough without the toy, so i'm going to keep all the thanks for myself.
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Old 08-01-2012, 02:58 PM   #35 (permalink)
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WTF... So am i the only guy who hasn't got these toys? I never needed those. Guess i'm a weirdo or something
You're not weird. I don't have any either. My husband is enough for me and I prefer to keep it that way.

I don't like vibes because then it becomes hard to O without one. Yes I've been down that road and won't go there again either.
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We have a special fireproof locked boxed where we keep our goodies!

I love shopping at adamandeve.com. They have a 90 day return policy for any reason! Plus they give lots of free goodies too.
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Old 08-01-2012, 03:10 PM   #37 (permalink)
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It isn't so much ED. Though in the past 6 months we have had 2 separate occasions of ED, both times while switching positions. The first time I didn't say anything...and the 2nd time I burst into tears (I know bad idea..but I felt so unwanted..and I know that made the situation worse). I have noticed that now when we switch positions he is always stroking himself (he never did this before) and my guess is to make sure he stays hard cause he's so conscious of it. So I guess sex puts pressure on him.

But what I meant when he finishes me with my dildo is that he doesn't last very long. Never has and unfortianutly I don't think he ever will.
Why doesn't he use a condom to start with? it will help him last longer, I know I have had my moments but when I am feeling like I want to last longer I throw on a condom that does the trick for me.
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Old 08-01-2012, 03:17 PM   #38 (permalink)
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Why doesn't he use a condom to start with? it will help him last longer, I know I have had my moments but when I am feeling like I want to last longer I throw on a condom that does the trick for me.
I wish it was that easy for me to get a few more minutes out of it. Condoms never slowed anything down for me.
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I wish it was that easy for me to get a few more minutes out of it. Condoms never slowed anything down for me.
Same with my husband. They don't make him last longer at all. :thumbdown:
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I learned the hard way (no pun), never introduce anything larger than you!! Not only will her vag get loose, she'll start enjoying it more than you! That was an ex g/f.

My wife now prefers a rubber dildo & rabbit vibrator. In fact it has become increasingly hard to make her cum any other way, not that i don't try for at least an hour. She sometimes likes to read the kindle (erotica) as well while I'm down there. It all is pretty hot. I can tell when she gets to a steamy part...
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Old 08-01-2012, 06:15 PM   #41 (permalink)
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I wish it was that easy for me to get a few more minutes out of it. Condoms never slowed anything down for me.
A man's skin sensitivity reduces with age. I went from being too quick at 20 to being able to last as long as I want at 50. It makes me think that those desensitizing creams might help, but idk for sure because I never tried one.
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Old 08-01-2012, 08:12 PM   #42 (permalink)
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I do prefer my husband...

BUT...

I have to admit that since he's been finishing me quite frequently with a dildo lately....I am finding it harder to get off with him.
My wife is much the same, but always has been it doesn't hurt my masculinity at all. My wife is very "clitoral" that's the key to everything with her. I can count on 1 hand the amount of times she has finished from just sex even her on top controlling it we've been together for over 15 years it's not for lack of trying ............lol.

She needs very direct stimulation.............I almost prefer toys we've got some OMG stuff and its' always a blast.
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Old 08-09-2012, 04:11 AM   #43 (permalink)
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Not only would I be ok with you having toys, I'd take you shopping for them and pay the bill!

Sounds to me like something else is happening. Stress, emotional stuff, performance issues, etc.
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My wife love it when I use my fingers..she can go for 30 min or more with multiple O's. So I bought her a dildo/dong ?? Its penis shaped, contoured but flexible.(Silicone i think) I bought it without her knowing and she hated the idea when I showed it to her but Ive used it a few times now and she enjoys it I can tell but she will not ask for it or use it herself. My hands just need a break sometimes..lol
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Old 08-09-2012, 05:02 AM   #45 (permalink)
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We currently have too many and she keeps wasting my money on them - and once, included certain toys I've banned (handcuffs/restraints). Our bedroom ends up being like a porn set if we take everything out too

She's the type to want to have someone to 'play with her' however, so it's not like having toys robbed us of our sex life. However, for other couples as it may portray a message "my toys are better then your equipment"
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