Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Chula Vista, CA
Re: Dreams about women who are not my wife!
I would talk to you wife. Tell her about these dreams, and tell her what you told us. That you know you would never cheat on her and everything you put in your original thread. I say this because maybe she can help you, and it could cause you to communicate a little more about little problems...which this dream seems to be.
I say this because I did the same thing, ecept it was with a REAL person.
When I was 15yrs old I met my 1st love. He was older than me...to old to date legally, but I still haven't forgot about him, and he'll always hold a dear place in my heart because he was considered a dear friend to me. A few weeks ago I had a dream about him...I asked a friend what to do and she suggested me talk to my husband. I'm glad I did...because he was understanding, he trusts me that I would never do anything. (Plus I couldn't anyway, this 1st love of mine was killed 5 years ago by a former friend of his from his "bad days". ) So, even though I can never "act" on this, nor would I because I have a wonderful husband, I still had the dreams. Talk to her. Prepare for some friction, but hopefully she will be understanding and you can figure out together why you are having these dreams...
"I'd rather have three minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special" from the movie 'Steel Magnolias'