05-24-2009, 08:43 AM
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Yorkshire, UK
| | Re: Is this normal
Originally Posted by Roger136913
I have tried that and let's just say she can't get me erect at times
Again never had this problem till just over 2 weeks ago....
It's just performance anxiety. Keep going. Performance anxiety hits older men more than younger becuase in young men, the hormones are raging like a forest fire - almost nothing will dampen the erection reflex. As you get older and the hormones subside, the doubts in the back of ones mind get more "air time", and this can cause a contraction in the smooth muscle of the penis. This hampers erection, becuase this muscle needs to be relaxed to led the blood flow in.
But semen retention can allow the hormones to build up again, and a more youthful response is possible. The optimum gap between ejaculations varies from male to male, depending on age, diet and body type.
It might help you to do the exact exercise described in the book, not during sex, but on it's own, if she is willing to participate. It will boost your confidence.
Last edited by MarkTwain; 05-24-2009 at 08:48 AM.