Soooo...
BF still separated from WW. You have to wait a year to file for D in my state which will be in January. He has a female friend who remains friends with the STBXW although the friend didn't approve of the cheating and sort of takes my BFs side...
Anyway, he posted something on FB and she (female friend) commented. I also commented. Now I see he deleted it. My comment was one that was appropriate but made our dating relationship more obvious. I have made many other comments, 'likes', etc that he left alone and also made our dating relationship obvious but these were left alone (and she would have had to sort of BF stalk to find them).
Even if this friend knew we were dating and shared that with his STBXW I don't see how it would matter???? They are arguing over some financial aspects of the divorce as she has a retirement account she does not want to split (she had begun heavily contributing to it toward the end) but I don't see how it matters whether or not she finds out we are dating. :scratchhead: Maybe he thinks the friend won't feed him info if she thinks he's dating?
I don't really worry they are dating each other as the reason he deleted. He's very open about any time they meet (they are in a mutual interest group) - I just feel like he's not "claiming" me. Maybe he thinks it's inappropriate/too soon? I have only met one of his friends and that was by accident - we ran into him and his date at a restaurant.
Not sure if I should ask him about why he deleted it or just let it ride and see how things go? (FaceBook creates issues for us older folks, too!)
BF still separated from WW. You have to wait a year to file for D in my state which will be in January. He has a female friend who remains friends with the STBXW although the friend didn't approve of the cheating and sort of takes my BFs side...
Anyway, he posted something on FB and she (female friend) commented. I also commented. Now I see he deleted it. My comment was one that was appropriate but made our dating relationship more obvious. I have made many other comments, 'likes', etc that he left alone and also made our dating relationship obvious but these were left alone (and she would have had to sort of BF stalk to find them).
Even if this friend knew we were dating and shared that with his STBXW I don't see how it would matter???? They are arguing over some financial aspects of the divorce as she has a retirement account she does not want to split (she had begun heavily contributing to it toward the end) but I don't see how it matters whether or not she finds out we are dating. :scratchhead: Maybe he thinks the friend won't feed him info if she thinks he's dating?
I don't really worry they are dating each other as the reason he deleted. He's very open about any time they meet (they are in a mutual interest group) - I just feel like he's not "claiming" me. Maybe he thinks it's inappropriate/too soon? I have only met one of his friends and that was by accident - we ran into him and his date at a restaurant.
Not sure if I should ask him about why he deleted it or just let it ride and see how things go? (FaceBook creates issues for us older folks, too!)